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I casually dated a guy that I met the last 2 weeks of college for about 2 months (LD after the 2 weeks). He was not over his ex girlfriend at the time (not recent btw) so that's why we weren't...

Well, that is how I really feel right now and I hope it's not just a temporary feeling.. trust me, I see not motive in not being honest about my feelings on an online forum lol. :)

You're right, I was emotional when I wrote that so yes, it wasn't right.. which is why I went back and was completely honest with him about why I really couldn't date him. I'm not going to lie, I...

lol, wow. No, I want to stay friends because I want to stay friends. I care deeply for him as a person and love being there for him and seeing him happy and if I can handle that with relatively...

We had a sexual relationship as well and always flirted, it wasn't just a friendship.. but I think what makes it nice is that we have become good friends in the process. He was honest with me from...

I strongly disagree that I should not have broken up with him. Even though he was holding off on doing anything with the other girl because of me, he still was hanging out with another girl and...

Well, I know.. but at the same time I was really there for him in those two months when he was really heartbroken about his ex. He told me stuff that he said he has never told anyone else besides his...

I know you're absolutely right, that's why I told him last night what was really going through my head. I didn't really get a feel for what he was thinking though because some new interesting...

Well honestly, the reason why he isn't ready for a relationship is because he recently tried to rekindle things with his ex and she rejected him. I made him happy throughout all of this, gave him...

^ I feel like if I talked to him about wanting a real relationship he would have just said whatever to keep me around and give me hope and it would not have made a difference. I don't necessarily...

Hmmm.. I did give him an honest explanation though.. things aren't well with my family right now and it does stress me out that we're long distance and I'm hoping I didn't give him the impression...

Oh, and another thing.. did I make a mistake but not saying a part of the reason why I didn't want to continue things was because I wanted a relationship and he didn't? I left it out because I didn't...

Yes, I do. It's hard to explain, but no matter what, I want to still be good friends with him even if he does lose interest. I think that if the timing would have been more proper (and he wasn't...

Haha, no, I didn't expect him to cry and beg! My question about his reaction was kind of, do you think he still has feelings for me and as a result of feeling a "challenge" will want to miss...

Okay, so I did it! I finally told this guy that I have been casually dating for about 2 months that I have been super stressed and busy this summer and don't think it's best that we continue dating...

Ok, this I understand. But what classifies as "over -committing"? I by no means feel like he's the one or that we're perfect for each other, and I am well aware it could possibly never be long-term....

Do you think it would be horrible if I let things continue the way they are now for the rest of the summer (we basically just talk online every night, sometimes webcam) and then in the fall decide to...

I agree and I AM considering doing so. I remember there was one night where we weren't able to talk to each other online (just online! lol) and he told me he honestly missed me. I think he genuinely...

We completely act like a couple. I guess I will first of all start out by explaining why he said he's not rea dy for a relationship. He still has feelings for his ex (broke up with her almost a year...

I whole-heartedly agree with you here. Even if it is difficult for me, even if he doesn't end up with his ex, I have decided to not give in to being in a relationship with him--official or not. I...

I think the offer of friendship was a way of avoiding saying.."I can fall back on dating you" since we do definitely have chemistry together from what he has mentioned himself (you can look at a past...

I'm not sure myself, I think I'm kind of just looking for people who have been in similar scenarios to tell me their stories or what they think of this situation. I always love to hear a wide variety...

Ok, I know, I know, I should just walk away and avoid getting hurt. But I have not known this guy very long (3.5 weeks) and because I knew of his unresolved relationship, I did not allow myself to...

Hmm. Well, I said that in an attempt to get over the last guy I was seeing. I have always been the long-term type, I have just never been given the opportunity with the right guy to experience it....

Well, thank you all for the opinions, warnings, and advice. I will very much take them to heart. I think it is actually a blessing in disguise that we are being separated for three months because it...