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he has a work do in a couple of weeks. hes asked if i would be happy for him to go if not he wont. he says she wnt be there as its a departmental thing. i know i have to 'let go' at some point but...

i have. he says nothing else happened. he met her a few times and talked alot via txt but no contact

believe it was no.more

forget it ever happened

its hard not knowing if there was more to it

so we had a week off together. spent the whole time as a couple having nice days out. no real reason to be worried. few things cropped up we argued about but nothing that really said he has been in...

yes. he is adament he has not. he said he is not interested in her, it was all just a fantasy he got sucked into for the attention as we had drifted. he said yes, potentially he could see her but he...

he left work normal time which was 'late' as it was friday early day. its happened once or twice alhough very rarely. he has been moved to a new section and said he was slammed by a late order so...

its very difficult to not wonder if he is still seeing her after work. worked a bit late on friday and made me worry occured to me he prob could see her for bit after work without me knowing maybe i...

i have been reading alot online and trying to gather my thoughts on it. im reading things from both sides too. it seems alot so finalise by suggesting may have been issues in the relationship which i...

thats interesting u say u think i should leave him. up to this point u said i took my job issues out on him n we should work it out. u didnt think itit was the be all and end all and have had a pop...

thanks for your input. as useful as you have been throughout this.

thanks smackie9. i dont know if any of you have been through this but maybe if you had youd be abit more sympathetic. did i think this would happen? no. did i think i would react this way? no. my...

very simple?? i wondered why it was thought he is carrying on lying. based on what i have said? so far everyone hear has responded to say im being paranoid n am looking for things that rnt there. now...

based on what?

why is it funny

ok. its difficult. he doesnt use his phone like he did. but now when hes on pc im digging for things. yesterday i came home the pc was in sleep mode. he was outside n came in to say hi. i went...

so how do i see past thr paranoia? im convinced everything he does is decietful now. i am nervous when he is not around but i hate the idea of mothering him

we have been having date nights every weekend. having massages like we used to. sleeping in same bed which we havent for a year (praise ear plugs). he keeps asking me to relax and checking im ok -...

i meant old as in it doesnt work. it was frm yesterday

yes shes not english. he tells me he hasnt spoken to her. hed been showig me his phone

whether hed been using it to communicate with her

so thngs have been going well. hes been using phone in plain sight. not late home etc. turns phone on/off in front of me except on one ocassion at weekend as he said he forgot n turned off although...

...snipped?

pls answer honestly