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Good! Thanks for coming back and keeping us posted. Hang in there.

Darcy, I get you. You met him when he was an alchy. Your dad was an achy and so since childhood you dealt with that. It's what's familiar to you. What happens is that adults end up being attracted to...

Nice. My ex never got to that point. He was a functioning alcoholic, coke user. He had ADD as a child. And ppl with ADD have a higher chance of getting addicted to coke. What coke did for him was the...

^ not his drinking. His drug use. His drinking I was fine with. Besides, not only alcoholics break promises. There are plenty of ppl that aren't alcoholics that break promises all the time, cheat,...

Sometimes ppl can live with an alcoholic and have a good relationship. I was with an alcoholic for many years and it wasn't his drinking that was the problem to me. I could have cared less that he...

Yes, having "hope" is what keeps many ppl in crappy relationships. Hoping their spouse will one day magically change. The reality is that he may always be an alcoholic for life. There isn't "hope"...

Darcy, you mention your father was an alchy and you had a bad childhood. This is no coincidence. Usually ppl tend to pick partners that resemble good and bad characteristics of their parents. Was...

K so I guess AA/ Alnon meetings are out of the question cuz you will hear horror stories after horror stories in there.

A family friend of mine is an alchoholic and drug addict. She ended up hooking to support her addictions despite having children. Her children were taken away from her by the court of law. That...

Darcy, hang in there. Don't hang into hope. His behaviour won't change and he might have to learn the hard way and hit Rick bottom. But of course I've also dealt with a mother losing 3 children and...

And you should also know that trying to get an alcoholic to quit is nearly impossible. If an alcoholic ain't ready, well you can kiss that hope goodbye. Giving "hope" to a wife that her husband may...

Smackie, ive Been in love with a functioning alcoholic for many many years. I've seen what alcohol can do. Believe me, I've seen it all first hand. I know what it's like to live with someone you love...

Yes I get how being in a drunken state makes ppl make poor decisions and clouds their judgement. But why strip clubs? Why naked chicks? Why a place that offers sex? Why is it that he didn't frequent...

Listen to the op people!!! The serious problem in their marriage is not alcohol! She has stated that she met him when he was a functioning alcoholic, she has encouraged him to go to bars with...

You are married to an alcoholic. The whole situation can make you go insane. But your original post was about your concern about strip clubs and not so much his drinking. There are a million other...