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I am very insecure. I have codependent tendencies, and eating disorders. Haha, but I guess that's why I joined a love forum...so I can gather advice before I take action.

That's a bit racist. I know you're asking about a race preference but still...you really really generalized. Also, there's just as many heavy white girls as black girls. Maybe even more.

Ive been with my boyfriend almost three years. We don't live together. I live with my parents, he stays with his brother. He comes over ever night when he gets out of work, and spends Sundays with...

Well the fact that she is open to you seeing you when she returns is a good sign....because that means there might not be someone else she's planning to see when she returns. When you meet up...don't...

Disruptive behavior doesn't need meds. It needs discipline....taking away privelages..time outs....grounding them...etc. Your gf either has to do that...or you have to leave if you have no say. A...

Actually, I go to free counseling at my college campus. During the times when that is not available to me...I try to gain perspective from others via forum. Some offer substantial even helpful...

I have had a lot of those problems, and I am codependent. I don't know enough to determine if you are the type. Look up codependent personalities. I think you may have that.

I want to correct myself about not being in the Darwin world. If that is the science one believes...then I guess we are. I only mean we don't perceive things like cave people anymore. :-D

Hmm I have a theory...take it loosely though. What if you enjoy seeing the comparison of a tall woman and short woman...because your instincts sense a battle for alpha female...in the wild kingdom...

I know his problem with AA is the same as mine...(They recommend a program similar to AA for codependents), and that's surrendering to a superior power. We're borderline atheist/agnostic...so that's...

I'll ask him if he wants to do that. I never mentioned it, because he was off heroin a couple years before he met me. When he met me he confessed that to me. So far it has been five years hes been...

well hes not friends with any of the people from then anymore, and he comes over every night. He likes going on hikes and walks when we have time together, because he enjoys nature. I don't really...

Lol. haha, I guess it wouldn't be 100 percent of the cases. Sometimes, I just wish that a persons intentions were stamped clear as day on their foreheads, "Won't cheat," or "Will f*ck everything that...

no hes been off heroine for 5 years tho

I understand. Im sorry, I dont mean to generalize about men. Its hard for me to trust my judgement, because my father cheated on my mother a lot...and my father basically taught me that if Im not...

The world needs more men like you :-)

I am surprised he hasn't broken up with me...we have fought a lot...and he hates my behavior...and even if mines better now its still undesirable and a work in progress. Im dumbfounded hes still with...

You are right. the thing was, he just started playing guitar when we were first dating, as like a hobby. I didn't know he ever intended to try to play at bars or anything. He hasn't played anywhere...

I worried about cheating from every guy I dated. I've fallen harder for this guy than any of my exes, and we have been together three years. I have a codependent personality, which is very hard for...

Perhaps you and her could have a discussion on what beauty is...its cultural variations, what you find beautiful, what she finds beautiful and why. An open and friendly discussion of the topic, may...

I know women are guilty of cheating on men as well, but I just want to talk about the male aspect, because we are biologically different.

Can a man truly be faithful to one woman for years and...

Reapish. You said in the first post she kept her feelings inside. Did she act unusual before she decided she needs time.

Not for me. I was broken hearted when my ex wanted to see other people. I was his first love, and he wanted to have more experiences. What could you do, really? I thought the world was gonna end, but...

haha their not that bendy. They sink in just fine.

The act of MILFing is actually similar in nature to "Oedipus Complex".