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I ended up going agaisnt your advice again and I went to the BBQ, but there's more of a story to it than just that.

I decided to decline her invitation and told her over text that I wasn't...

We've been talking by text over the last week, normally just little chats every other day and we sometimes say good night to each other.

She invited me to come to a barbecue at her parent's house...

Guys, thanks for everything. I decided to finally grow a backbone, put my foot down and take your advice.

I met up with her before work today and explained that I thought we had rushed into things...

So she rang me after she had finished her hobby, but I was with my friends and told her I might not be able to see her today. She was very upset at this news, saying it was unfair to make plans and...

This whole thing is starting to become a vicious cycle that shows no sign of ending :/

So, she went to her ex's flat to do the cleaning thing and it did not go well. When she arrived, he was...

She texted me saying her ex wanted to meet up and give her some 'gifts'. They met at her new place and the gifts turned out to be a mug as a housewarming gift, some chocolates to say sorry for...

I always appreciate your advice, everyone but I have to bow my head and say once more I did not follow it :/

This is only a minor development again - but she texted me asking to spend the day...

Her ex rang me in the middle of the night, waking me up, a few nights ago asking to meet up. I was initially angry but he said I owed him an explaination so I went and met him. He seemed angry when I...

So, I actually missed the party. I didn't finish working till 21:00 but my friends still wanted me to come. She said she felt a bit akward being around her ex and his friends at the moment and wanted...

There haven't been any major developments as of yet with the two of us, although I have chosen to go to the party. But I'd just like to mention that my feelings for her aren't entirely based on sex....

Thanks so much for everything guys - but I'm going to have to throw another spanner in the works here :/

She has informed me over texts that she was suppossed to be going on a 'final date' with...

A little update guys. She contacted me letting me know she was free today and wanted to hang out, she expressed an interest in coming to see my new place and I drove to pick her up.

I took her out...

This update isn't as ground-breaking as the others - I just need some suggestions to help me.

I've moved to a new town now, which I'm hoping will make things easier. I've avoided contact with her...

Yeah guys, I need to move on. I'm glad I'm moving town. Maybe I shouldn't contact her, but I just feel like I can't control my actions.

I've been hit with a really bad bout of sadness just now so...

I understand where you are coming from guys and I do agree with pretty much everything you've all said, but I need to vent a little, so please don't take anything personally :/

I didn't contact...

I haven't made any effort to contact her for a few days and she has contacted by text me asking if I wanted an update on the situation. I said yes, please with a smiley face.

She said I probably...

Update guys - You must be sick of me by now but whatever...........

So she arranged another hangout with a few people that I was invited to. There were a fair few people there is time and it was...

I saw her today. She texted me agreeing to meet up and talk. I was parked outside her boyfriends flat when he came out and was being picked up by someone. As they drove passed he saw me. She...

I was woken up last night by a text message from this girl. I had 4 missed calls from her boyfriend on my phone and she was simply stating that she thinks she ****ed up. I asked what had happened, if...

Here's an update guys.

So, she arranged a sort of hang for a few people and she invited me. It might be interesting to note that the choice of location - she would normally get a ride off of one...

So here's an update. There is some good and some bad.

The good news, is that I've secured a new job and a new flat and am moving out of town in about 9 days.

As is custom with such a change,...

I guess the only answer is time.

In these situations, if you can't condition your mind to deal with it, you have to put yourself in a position where you have no choice but to deal with it.

But,...

I agree - I've never acted on my feelings. In fact I've tried everything I can think of to get rid of them. When I talked about chickening out of moving away, I knew it was the right decision then,...

I have these unwanted feelings for someone. We have amazing conversations. She is funny, smart and beautiful. But she has a boyfriend and I don't know what she sees in him. I think I could treat her...