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Do they? That has not been my experience. People try to change, but revert to type eventually.
We are who we are.

The fact that he;s integrating you into his life and introducing you to his freinds means a lot. Don't get hung up on the semantics of "girlfriend" versus "lady friend". Actions are what counts. Talk...

Yeah...agreed. However, being confronted with an irrefutable fact and still lying about it demonstrates a complete lack of respect and a behaviour pattern that will cause many problems.

Thanks folks for your insights.

There are two schools of thought here.

1. Forget it and get on with your relationship
2. There is a value mismatch that I have just discovered/accepted. Move...

She lied to you. You know she did!
You will never trust her....
How naive people are to think that they can lie and get away with it.
It would have been better for her to tell you the truth. ...

Hey Meerk... Don't stress.
This will be a hard time, but the pain will subside.
Try and eat and drink a little and just hang in there!!!
Talk to somebody you are close to. It'll help.

Divorce. Your lack of emotional well-being in the marriage will have a profound effect on your kids.
While the divorce will be hard, and there will be an adjustment period for you children, they...

I never get the "low self esteem" and "abusive relationship" thing.
She was in a very stable and supportive marriage when she met the abusive guy.
She's a very attractive woman, and I bet there...

Hmmmm.... Is there anybody else who subscribes to view that the best predictor of future behaviour is past behaviour?
Just leaving the past alone is often impossible.
The pattern of repeated...

Hi folks.....

I have been dating my girlfriend for 12 months. She is beautiful, quirky, intelligent and very dedicate to me.

4.5 years ago, she left her husband (who I gather was a supportive...