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If your relationship litmus test is trick-or-treating, disney propaganda, or television "programming", then probably you have bigger problems and shouldn't be worrying about relationships.

Umm...congrats? I guess.

Surely there must be something you can do to help your minuteman out OP. Positions that allow you greater control, thick raincoats for desensitization, etc. Perhaps try to have a discussion with your...

Suggest you not apologize, just go over and talk to him if you're interested. Make up some topic material about the neighborhood if you need an excuse. Good luck.

Sounds like she wants you back. Guessing she lost respect for you last time, so stop being so nice going forward. If you let her treat you poorly and don't call her on it, she'll again push you out...

He certainly sounds like a good influence on you.

If you wish to beat the "negativity", then begin by recognizing that you're not a victim in all of this. These men are not controlling your life...

No you're not being irrational. He's not acting appropriately given your description of events.

As to what you should make of the situation, I suspect that you and your boyfriend have dramatically...

STOP communicating with him. He's just using you as a backup plan. While he still cares about you, he likely does not respect you and he does not see you as a viable partner. What you're doing to...

If your only objective is to be a sperm dumpster then don't talk. At the very least avoid using complete sentences that might repel the target. Focus instead on how best to display your wares.

Yeah it sounds like he's nervous around you. Think you should just ask him if he's seeing anyone. If no, then just ask him out. Not every guy in the world has the confidence to risk rejection.

To answer your question directly, the answer is no, I'd not do what your husband did...married or otherwise. It's distasteful, disrespectful, and mind numbingly stupid when one doesn't even know...

Is there a question you wished to ask? If you're asking why she left then perhaps you should ask her...and god also, at least one of them should have a response.

I don't think it's practical to pursue a relationship with that kind of age disparity at this time.

Most likely to keep his options open, but I could be way off on all of this. You know him better than I, maybe he really is too busy to maintain regular communications. It seems more than a bit...

Here or broken hearts would seem to be the most appropriate.

Sounds like he has begun to ghost on you for some reason. My guess would be that he has begun seeing someone else. When's the last time he said he wasn't seeing anyone else?

Yes, it is imo.



Nope. Trust her or don't.



Nope. Don't get into her business like that. It'll just lead to more drama.

No charge buddy. ;)

If you think basilandthyme's comments are dumb and irrational you're likely the one that needs to find something better to do with your time...bro.

He probably slept with someone else right away while you were on a break to help forget about you and/or as proof he could "get" someone else. If you don't trust him and/or don't respect him OP then...

Because man, you can't bullsh1t a bullsh1tter and well the 17yo dood has been hurt too much already and can't go takin' no risks to find love...if such a thing really exists. The OP already said...

Force yourself to talk to him. Then you will know for sure.

Focus less on fb and instagram conversations OP and more on real conversations with real people face to face. Initiate conversations with people you've no good reason to speak to. Conversation skills...

I don't think it's always breezy, but the UK has the 2nd highest divorce rate in the world after the US according to this:

Top 10 Countries with Highest Divorce Rate in 2014

I doubt it's all...

I didn't miss it at all, I tend to read very carefully before posting.



At best it sounds like excuse production. At worst it sounds like a pile of cow sh1t. I haven't studied divorce rituals...

You're both in your 30s really? Sounds like a bunch of ridiculous drama you'd read about with early 20 something couples. She's a sneak and a liar and you're still married. End it, get a divorce, and...