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It's great to listen to advice, but in the end you need to do what you think is best for your life. It's your life.

Find someone who is more stable and more into you. It sounds like she is more trouble than she is worth. Don't get hung up on the fact that she's cute and has all the right things in the right...

I've been there
I'm guessing I'm a lot older than you now. I've dated in high school and college ... been married twice ... made more than my share of mistakes with women. I went back to school an...

Love is always 100% emotional ... there is no logic to it and yet love one of mans strongest needs. Analytical limier thinking people seem to think it's a virtue to always put logic before emotion....

I always feel some sadness when I hear someone broke up because I know how painful it is even when it is logically the right choice. Loss at its best is difficult for all. I wish you the best in...

The need for love as human-beings is only 2nd to the need for food and shelter. When a person gets the love they need in their life, the characteristics that you are talking about move into balance...

I have a Master’s Degree in Psychology and I don't believe in the term, Love addiction". Every human-being needs love ... and I believe there cannot be too much love. I think what you are talking...

We moved to Russia when I retired so my wife could be near her family and friends. I can see she is much happier here and she did live in America with me for almost 11 years with no complaints. I do...

Commitment is one of the 6 things that must to exist to sustain a marriage that is successful. The other 5 are, similar views on spending and saving money, sharing similar interests in how you spend...

If you put your emotions aside you would not stay with him. The thought of not having his love in your life is blinding you ... and understandably so, loss is hard, but the answer is still clear. You...

My physiography is, don't miss an opportunity. So, if the only chance you have to talk to her is with her friends, than do it. If the outcome isn't positive than that's no different than if you had...

You are right, I remember you did say you looked at what you wanted and also what you thought you had to offer her.
The main thing I wanted to encourage you about is that I believe persistence wins...

I was single for a lot of years after my divorce and when I finally went on line, there were more women who didn't write back than did, but,remember you only need just one that works. I did have a...

You're obviously an antithetical limier thinker. Half the world is in your category.Every personality type has strengths and weaknesses. Those who are the most successful find ways of improving their...

She obviously knows she should do better but she really doesn't want to. People who are selfish really believe thy will be happier being selfish ... if that wasn't true they wouldn't choose to be...

Relax ... see what will happen. Emotions get in the way of our good seance often ... but love is about emotions so just be aware, which you seem to be doing naturally. I guess what I am saying is you...

I wouldn't do a thing unless she broke up with her boyfriend ... and don't influence her towards doing that, you might regret it later. Dangerous path to go down.

So what are your questions?

I've been married for more than 10 years now but before that I went through a similar experience and can still remember the pain and hurt. I thought I could never love again. I joined a dating site...

Your friends are right, it probably wasn't you. The problem is his inadequacies. A loss of this kind always hurts, there's no getting around it. Getting better is like watching the clock move ... you...

Just because someone rejects doesn't mean something is wrong with you ... but more than that you need to be with some-one that wants to be with you. You cant help feeling the pain from a break up but...

Love is the 2nd highest human need after food and shelter. Everyone wants and needs love in their life ... some just don't want to admit it because of fear. I believe with all my heart that there is...

Even though your story is very common, this kind of loss is one of the most difficult to get through. Two things here; 1. when you have a serious difference in what you believe and how you make sense...

Opposites attract and the 2 of you are no exception. You have things she lack and she has things you lack. The strength of that attraction is mostly subconscious and seems almost magical. New love is...

The answer is, no it's not worth it. I have always said, date around, don't sleep around. Most people get this backwards. You are living the results of getting this backwards. If you date several...