I've been feeling this for 4 years now: I simply can't gain interest on anyone and the rare occasion that I feel some attraction it goes away as quickly as it came. I used to be such a loving,...
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I've been feeling this for 4 years now: I simply can't gain interest on anyone and the rare occasion that I feel some attraction it goes away as quickly as it came. I used to be such a loving,...
The women I meet are the most interesting people I've ever met but my brain can't simply say "Dude, she's magnificent, go try getting her to know you!". It's my problem, not theirs, I'm probably...
I lost my shyness a long time ago, I thought it would the be-all-end-all to my dating issues, since I now can start conversations without succumbing to the approach anxiety. However, I found myself...
I've been depressed my entire life, though, happy moments are very few and far between. Still, I could love someone even when I was down in the dumps. Now it's different: even when I'm happy as hell,...
Thing is: I've been "burned out" for almost 5 years now, I've met lots and lots of women but literally none of them made me feel even the slightest fraction of chemistry, it was like I was talking to...
This is a tricky one to explain. Basically, I am not that much into actively searching for a date, if it happens it happens. The process goes as usual: I meet a girl, we start talking, we start...
When I was a shy, awkward, insecure teenager, I could feel love really intensely. I'd also fall in love quite easily(I was a desperate idiot). I never had a girlfriend back then, all girls looked at...
(it's been a while since I've posted, it's great to be back, though)
So yeah, imagine that you're this average guy who wants a girlfriend but keeps getting rejected/doesn't know where to start....
So, I think I have finally found what I believe to be the perfect girl for me. She shares all my tastes, she's introverted, she's a cat person, she likes to stay at home watching netflix, she's a pop...
Well, I'm the only insecure guy in my group of friends, but I'm the only one who is in a college course which has awesome job opportunities, while one is in a 16th literature course, and the other...
I can't afford therapy, that's the issue. I'm trying as hard as I can, I'm reading books about psychology and stuff, I'm doing my best to adjust and mature. Therapy would be a great help for me, but...
I'm insecure, my life has been a train wreck: I was bullied until 9th grade, girls never really got along with me and even ran away from me in disgust because of my social awkwardness. I'm now in...
That stuff about security is all bogus. Most of my friends are those kind of people who are happy while in a relationship, but miserable single. They don't provide insecurity in any way, but the...
Neither do them...
That's the problem: they don't. They were always complaining to me about it. They're not better than me, it just happened that girls also like insecure, shy guys("nice guys"), but somehow I can't get...
I still can't find an explanation to why all the "nice guys" I know have a girlfriend, and I guarantee you that some of them are no better than me... Damn, I must suck really bad...
I just don't have what it takes: I try to turn my attentions to my college course, but then I remember I'm not good at anything... I'm worthless, no woman will ever want me...
But I can't do anything to stop this...
The only reason I kept going in spite of failure is that I'm doomed to even more failure if I don't try...
But how can I be someone I'm happy with? I can't! How can I turn from loser to winner when...
But I can't do anything right, that's the problem, if I even try to get a girlfriend I'll fail because I was born a failure...
Yes, of course that I have, but I lack the skills to accomplish them...
How can I be confident when I'm not good at anything? It's stupid to be confident when you suck...
Look man, I'm not the only unhappy guy in my group of friends, that's why I'm like this.
Do you know what's like to be inferior to everyone else? It's one of the worst feelings in the world, trust...
I don't think it's enough, the qualities I have are enough, but how can I not be a downer? I suck at everything I do, and the only time girls "like me" is either when they're mocking me or when...
I'm a good listener, I'm understanding, no one will ever try to steal me from her, I'm funny(sometimes), I'm intelligent(not much, but it's something), I'm a good lover, because I enjoy every small...
But my friends got a girlfriend without an effort, why can't I do it too? ALL of them got a girlfriend without ever having to learn that skill...
I have literally ZERO things that make me feel...