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I know the Las Vegas "invitation" was baloney;that's why I didn't really react to it and took it with a grain of salt each time he mentioned it. I don't come across as easy or naive to him or any...

When you mentioned that he tried to "push" me by saying he was tired, you think he was just saying that so I would make a move on him? That thought crossed my mind earlier...

Yes, it's been odd...

How should I handle this situation, given that I saw him with another woman, the next time we run into each other, especially if he is flirtatious and open and suggesting we go to Vegas again??? I...

Yes, I agree that he has been a bit of a sissy with me at times, much to my surprise, because he outwardly appears as though he is quite popular with the ladies. (He's gregarious, very good looking,...

I have been platonic friends with this guy ("J") for roughly a couple of years, but it seems as though we are both trying to make the transition into something more but we're having trouble. In...

I'm afraid that you have contacted him too much and too urgently without allowing him to reciprocate so early in a relatively new relationship. That email you apparently copied here was fraught with...

I'm not sure who your comment was for, but I already know he's a chiropractor and referred to him as such in my posts.

Regarding your last line

[... since he can get higher quality women who don't make him work as hard]

you automatically assumed that I wasn't a higher quality woman. Not nice. Nor accurate.

Peter,

I just sent you the link for the picture in a private message.

Is there a way I can send you a picture of the sumo wrestler in a private message? I'll check. Yes, the picture is as offensive as they come, but that is part of the humor I thought I was conveying...

He would have to know from our email communications that there is some interest on my part, or he would not have flirted with the winks and so forth. Admittedly, I was just getting to the point...

No, no, no! I said in the first sentence that a woman told me all of that. The doctor wasn't involved in the conversation. I hesitatingly put it on here at the time because I thought she might...

It clearly was meant to be a joke, but email is a tough monster as a communication vessel. You never know how your message is going to be received. Anyway, I am only judging by the abrupt halt to...

Does anyone think that I have to apologize for my last message to him with the sumo wrestler picture and so forth? I still have not heard anything, and it's been over a week since he read it. I...

Hindsight is 20/20, but I am sure you are thinking that you should have waited before becoming so intimate right away, especially if you knew already he was a player. It may have set you apart if...

It's difficult, if not impossible, to establish a meaningful emotional connection AFTER sex has entered the relationship first. You also didn't try to expand upon a one-night stand; you were with...

You left out a very important part of the story: How did he get your telephone number?

I appreciate the advice to ask this guy out from you guys. However, I can't bring myself to do that now. It was a challenge enough for me to start the communication via email - a big step for me,...

I originally attached a picture of an offensive sumo wrestler to give life to the ridiculously silly idea that he would have such a masseur in his office. My hindsight after not hearing from him...

Do you think that I am overthinking the whole sumo wrestler thing added to my last message to him? That is the only thing I can think of that would nip our communications suddenly - if he took it...

I did think he was interested throughout the last week or so of emails back and forth (finally!), and I felt good about that. My concern, though, is my last message described above (with the sumo...

Your "odd" behavior in the beginning may have been all it took for him to leave you at bay. I would not attempt to contact him at all. What would your explanation be, after all, if you were to...

A friend of mine used to call me "Miss Parker Brothers" because I would play so many games, and the main one was "Hard to Get". Quite honestly, I was conditioned somehow early on to think that you...

You're right, Doc, about too many games back and forth now after a period of nothingness. You mentioned that I was chasiing him, though - really? I waited over six weeks to establish any contact,...

It really sounds like you love him as a person, but you are not in love with him. That's evident in your post, I'm afraid. But that's O.K. Pay attention to it.