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well INDI I am NOT thinking therapy is magic! we have to talk outside of there and I have known that, it has been my wife that "has" to go so if she keeps talking with me we will be good! I know I...

I was trying to commuicate with her, but it has now made it there! lol :)

Ok here is the latest! wife and I had our theripy ( counceling) all went well, My wife has done a 180 and does see where I am coming from and does understand. We have been doing a lot of talking and...

I do see how lucky I am! and I was trying to talk with my wife to start with about the feelings for this other gal which I knew were not right and I knew were going to hurt my wife, but she did not...

I ment the friendship over any romantic feelings

wakeup: that is my goal now, to reconnect with them first and this weekend has been so much family fun, dont know how or why a video game could bring us all so much closer but this wii has! then with...

maiden, I have started doing just that, and I belive that alot of my attractions were because my wife had given up on herself for some time, and yes the major fight we had sucked, I think it did open...

may be I am fighting it but the friendship IS more important to me than anything else!

I told my wife shortly after my wife pointed out to me that I still had feelings for this other gal. Yes my wife could see the feelings that I had for this other gal. I tried to talk with my wife...

hints are for people that like to play games! if you dont have the balls to tell some one what you think then why even say that you are someones friend in the first place! wakeup "I will not enable...

but why not say no and but left me hangin??? that is the worst feeling

ok for some of you may have seen my other post about my wife and a friend that I have feelings for. My wife and I have had some major fights lately and my friend has been there for me chat with. My...

I know it wont fix everything. and yes the theripist is a good one, I do trust her, it is the same one we have seen before for other reasons.

well the wife and I have sort of made up for now. I had not slep in our bed since last wed night. She as almost been beging me to say that I love her and I wont, and still have not. right now I can...

I am sure it has and I have even told her that her behavior is affecting the girls in a nevitive way!

right now the kids dont appear to know what is going on. our fights have been before they get home from school, and I can be one good actor when needed! my wife has broke down and cried infront of...

I know if the end is for us then yes I will make sure the kids get some counceling. I do not want them to be hurt, that is my worst fear! My kids are my world! I would do anything for them! I just...

oldest is 9 soon be 10 youngest just turned 7 both girls that love their mom to death

our counceling is to start Jan 16th. and yes I kind of have a feeling that our counceling is going to lead to the end for the two of us. The last fight we had I was so cold about it and had no...

Well as for as my motive.... I worry about my kids first! How everything she does affect them! Usally I can be a buffer for them but any more I am getting wore out! When she keeps repeating the same...

again thank you all, I did tell her this evening face to face ( she wanted me to text her durning the day and I would not do it) what all was going on, and yes she is on meds for the mental disorder....

well the impromto night out... she tells me to have them cause I am usally the home body and have been for the past 10yrs when I let her go and do what she wants to, she usally goes over to a friends...

well the wife and I got into a major fight last night...... she told me that she was going to try for disablity, now she has no dr backing, will not go through the steps that the dr told her, she...

thank you,, all of you! it does give me some direction to go for now untill we get to counceling.

I have been doing that, and telling her what I have been thinking and feeling (of course nothing about devorce, for once that goes out there, there is no taking it back). All she says it that she...