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i can relate to what you're feeling, totally devastated, feeling like everythings gone and your whole world fell apart etc. however, that should tell you something. no one should ever be the center...

thats awesome man, thanks!

by the way, after reading about the dynamics of the relationship, it was clearly dysfunctional. i know you loved eachother but that was a codependent relationship and you were both really attached to...

he's right. these are some of your best years. once you get over it, you'll enjoy it!

getting your ex back usually doesnt work. for whatevers that worth. dont expect you to listen cuz youre under the influence of extremely powerful emotions but just thought id let you know in case you...

i agree with this post. the constnat breaking up and making up is not healthy. it is emotionally draining and it is having a negative impact on your happiness, health, and well being. you know it and...

im really sorry to hear about your situation. that seems like a really trick one to be in.

one question i have for you is how the hell is he your soulmate? you guys have broken up twice, he's...

very well said and spoken from your heart.

however, i do believe that something that someone shares CAN help and i disagree that time heals all wounds. there are plenty of people on here who have...

do not tell her you feel sex deprived. wtf? why? whats the point? is that going to make you feel her any more attracted to you? NO!

she's moved on and is hooking up with other guys while you're...

i agree. this stuff should have been resolved. this is unfair to her. this will come back and bite you in the ass if you dont deal with this. its been 28 months (over 2 years). the fact you quote the...

damn that sucks man, especially since its ur friend and hes a musician too. that would be a rough one for my self esteem. especially since you mentioned that hes more "successful" than you. thatd bug...

she sounds legitamitely confused. well done by playing it cool and resisting. this is what kept pushing her to want more and want to be with you. what she really wants is space, like she stated over...

steve nailed it. view this as an escape from a toxic relationship instead of a loss that you should be devastated over. focus on rebuilding your self worth so you don't tolerate this kind of shit in...

glad you're realizing it. sounds like she has her own personal issues and insecurities and seeks to feel whole and complete with her partners. at first, it gives her a good feeling but eventually it...

it sounds like she had the power in the relationship.

you moved in with her and her sorority sisters? usually the girl moves in to the guys place. in any case, thats sorta irrelevant. what is...

She sounds like one lost and confused women acting out after her last break up, jumping from guy to guy. Let her go.

Also, don't give her the satisfaction of knowing you know about this and are...

I was about to respond but Rob nailed it on the head. Read this over and over again. I quoted it for emphasis.

^ he just nailed it on the head perfectly. you are driving yourself crazy with your very own mind. recognize it and let it go. i know it's not easy but neither is living with so much self-inflicted...

how long ago did you guys break up?

if all it takes is one drunk dial to get you to start thinking about getting back together with him then you're going to have a really hard time moving on.
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How soon after she and her ex broke up did you two get together? Sounds like it was sort of a rebound relationship with you to try to take her mind off her ex and fill her life with someone else....