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1. Because you rejected her and she has pride
2. Apologise, tell her we you regret your original decision and would she reconsider

In my opinion...

The good news is you have a friend who genuinely cares about you. It sounds like she is finding it hard to tell you the truth because she doesn't want to hurt your feelings.
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Maybe get her one of those massive collars that the vets give to dogs to stop them scratching themselves, or otherwise eat an onion each day to repel her (Sorry, just joking)

On the plus side......

I thought about this today...
It may be best to talk to him before he does the whole proposal thing...

It might be more embarrassing being turned down than having you approach him before and just...

It will hurt him more when you leave him and take the kids and half the house

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Have to be strong and bite the bullet xxxxxx

Then tell him you want to carry on as you are and revisit it later.

Don't do it if you are not desperate to. I really believe if it were right you would be desperate to say yes.

It's very very...

Do not marry this man!!!!!!!!
If you feel like this then imagine how you will feel after 10 years of marriage, you have children and then you meet someone you actually fall in love with.

You will...

Need to know about the history of all this. How long you have been with her and about her relationship with him

"It's a very dangerous state. You are inclined to recklessness and kind of tune out the rest of your life and everything that's been important to you. It's actually not all that pleasurable. I don't...

Yer, men are a bl**dy nightmare

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I think he should show you more respect....and to be honest, it sounds a bit fishy

Sounds like he likes you to me. Sounds like he loosens up after a drink too.

Arrange to go for a casual drink after work, get the shots in and tease the truth out of him.

Date, marry, kids,...

You sound like a decent guy and you do have qualities girls would like.

If your weight is worrying you then the simple solution is a healthy diet and exercise. You don't want to be become...

Never acceptable to behave like that!

I agree, tell him to sort himself out and show a little gratitude for your hard work or take a hike.

I think it sounds like he wants you when he needs you and when he doesn't he isn't interested.
I would enjoy being with him but keep my eyes open for someone more committed.

Not in a great position to be critical myself but your boyfriend won't care that it was only once. He will still be gutted. Once you do it with this guy then the next one that comes along will be...

Sorry I had to go. I'll be back and will message you once I'm able x

Also have a complex online relationship, hopefully chat one day!

Sorry, where is off topics

He isn't brave enough to talk to you but he likes you. Wants you to make the first move x

Trying to get enough posts to private message

No idea? Not very helpful is it
Sorry x

Sounds like he wants a baby, so just tell him what you want.

Maybe he was thinking about his ex and felt it wasn't right, you said he wasn't over her....who knows.

Best thing to do is ask him.

Don't do it if you do to want to. It's your choice