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I'm not codependent. I have self worth.

At the same time humans are humans. We make mistakes. Maybe I'm more tolerant to a persons shortcomings.

7 months may appear to be nothing to some. But...

Thing is I shouldn't have to give him the option. He should either break up with me if that's what he wants to do. I am not coming second best to other women. Being his back up if pastures are not...

Fair point. The thing is he's not a player. You almost have to meet this guy to understand where I'm coming from. Like this is a guy who's mum bought his clothes and lays them out for him. He was...

He is shy, insecure and doesn't think he's attractive. He said he has always done things years after everyone else.

Maybe talk to him a little bit before you just go an drop the will you date me bomb.

Maybe try and get on his radar more? Actually sit beside him on class, chat and bit try get his number instead...

Thank you all for your replies.

Having reflected on the situation the only solution I can come to is time will sort this out.

I'm a patient person. I accept why he did it and I suppose it...

So I have been seeing a guy for 7months. We have been having a great time, staying with each other at weekends, taking trips away, going to his family weddings and introducing each other to friends...

Maybe he finds you attractive. Maybe he's being a concerned employee. What do you want out of the situation?

I told him. It had to be done. I've been in turmoil all night about it.


No reply... Never a good sign. :(

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Just friends :'(

The guy I've been seeing for a while causally has started using a dating website again. I know that he and I will go back to being just friends now, however I have fallen in live with him.

I know...

Thank you everyone for your help.

I think I need to tell him how I feel. Ultimately if he walks then it shows he was using me. It will also be protective for me as I won't have to continue with...

This is the thing, I think he must feel something towards me... Why else would he be with me? I have tried so many times to seem non committal. I try not to see him more than two days a week, and...

Ultimately it's your decision. However it will be better for her to hear it from yourself rather than through the grape vine.

It won't be easy and is a potential relationship killer. But it's...

It's been 4 and a half months of being involved with each other in a romantic/dating and now fwb way. I just don't understand how he can have no feelings towards me/ just feelings to be friends....

Thanks for replying.

He told me today that he isn't ready for a relationship. However this was us talking in general terms as I was testing the water and asked him if he had any dates this week....

Okay so I'm writing this as an update to my previous thread as an update...

Basically the guy (Mr A) I was seeing for a little while broke up with me. At the time I really felt a connection with...

I have just blocked him and deleted his number.

Goodbye dickhead :)

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Thank you all for your advice.

It just takes hearing this from external sources to know that the...

Okay: that both stings but brings absolute clarity to the situation. I am not naive or desperate. As I said I have started a new relationship. I definetely do not want to have a relationship with him...

Should I tell him how I feel one last time, like a last ditch attempt? Explaining myself and then giving him tough love. Either respect me or leave me alone. As I am so fed up of it.

I just want a...

Let her go

Thank you for your opinions.

They echo what I know in my head to be true. Often I have thought that he was seeing other women... it was one of my differentials as to why he cut me off so abruptly....

I am so confused. I would really appreciate an impartial view on my issue.
So I met a guy on a night out who shall be known as A. We hit it off immediately and started dating. It was effortless....