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I had thought of that and she has said on several occasions I should be more assertive with her....could be the way to go...

Hi....thank you for looking at my post. I'll try and keep it short, I met someone on line a few weeks ago and got on with her very well. We have been out on 8 or 9 dates now, she normally rings me...

I decided to wait in the end...she never contacted me and has since removed her profile from the dating site we were on...I think she has gone back to the guy she was seeing before we met...he was...

Have been seeing a girl for about 3 weeks now and prior to that about 3 weeks chatting on line....things moved quite fast once we met and all seemed to be going well...

Then last Friday I had a...

Brilliant responses Thank you.....I think sometimes I get a bit panicky and paranoid and as a typical man...want to put thing right immediately. Just let things settle down and take some...

I agree...but as well as the nice things a couple of not so good things have happened during this initial few weeks....sometimes I think you know...but saying that I think seeing how things go at the...

Thanks for your comments you are right....my head has won I need to wait and see how things develop...and if I do get the urge as DalM0n says perhaps a softer approach would be the best....it is...

I would normally agree with you I'm in my 40's so should know better really...in my previous relationships it has taken time to develop and was around the 3/4 month mark before we said we loved each...

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I have been dating someone for about 3 weeks now and before that we were chatting on line for about 3 weeks before we first met.

In the last 3 weeks we have seen each other about 8...

You just gotta do it....go into it with an open mind....expect the worst and anything else will be a bonus....might be worth setting some ground rules though not sure what they would be...but you...

The main thing is you have thought about it....it's not an impulse reaction....from what you say...you have to give it go....your feelings for this girl are not going to go away...its is better to...

thank you...I hope so too...but if not there are plenty more opportunities available...

Having watched this post develop and have added some comments myself...I can see both sides of the argument although I don't necessarily agree with how some of the comments have been made I can see...

Chatting to others does help...and trying to be a bit less intense will help I think....

I agree...I need to add a bit of mystery....and as they say absence makes the heart grow fonder....have just signed off with her for the evening....will wait now until she text's me again... thanks...

I am have started chatting to others as well...not sure she knows what she wants.....people do some odd things and it's easy when it's not face to face.....

I agree was going to do exactly as you suggested....but after nothing all weekend she is now texting me constantly....Unfortunately I find it hard not to reply out of pure politeness....the day I...

I understand in your current state of mind it is very tempting to agree to what she is asking...and I'm not saying you shouldn't I would just take a little bit of time to think about it let the...

Had no text's from her yesterday....after I sent her one last night...but did have a text this morning as if all was fine just saying "hope you have a good day ".....even more confused now.....do she...

Time does heal believe me....but you do have to cut all contact as hard as it is.... I've been there and clutched at any bit of contact whatever the reason....as smackie9 says...Stop it....it will go...

I think that's a possibility.... I do think she was out on Friday night and maybe over the weekend hence the lack of contact....will just have to wait and see....

Thanks for all you comments...it...

It's good to get lost in something else and at least for a while it will take your mind off things...all the best...it will work out...things happen for a reason

My second relationship was very much the same...I felt I wanted to put right what had happened to her in the past and make the future the best I could for her....and now you can see her taking a path...

Had that feeling too just wish you could jump ahead quickly to see what will happen....it is difficult to accept that you are no longer part of her life and you don't know what is happening as you...

It is the most horrible feeling and right now I bet you feel at the moment how on earth can you move on.....but you will....the downside is it takes time....it will happen...