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  1. This is (again an excuse dude) !!! If you don't...

    This is (again an excuse dude) !!!
    If you don't leave a message? It means you dialed the wrong number...The fact you left a message tells me you wanted her to know it was you who called her back....
  2. If you promise to allow me to use you: I will...

    If you promise to allow me to use you: I will promise to tell you what you should have done.
    You aren't being smart dude. You're falling right into her stupid little plan!

    Now she knows you're a...
  3. You aren't getting what I'm saying dude: Why...

    You aren't getting what I'm saying dude:
    Why would you need to tell her, "hey let's meet up" IF you surprised her and went to visit her????

    You asked for permission: and you were unsurprisingly...
  4. You must have skipped my post: You don't set it...

    You must have skipped my post: You don't set it up like an appointment dude!
    If you do: guess what? She either won't show: or she will NOT want to meet you and look you in the eye.
    Once again she...
  5. Big mistake: talking to her over the phone dude. ...

    Big mistake: talking to her over the phone dude. Oh well.
    Considering she didn't have to take your call: (and she still did) and even took the time out of her life to tell you answers to your...
  6. You can't be serious about that? If you...

    You can't be serious about that?
    If you subconsciously want your relationships to fail: Then you clearly don't deserve an explanation as to why it failed.

    (If you didn't know) has it EVER...
  7. Dude, you are just babbling about shit you don't...

    Dude, you are just babbling about shit you don't even know about!
    The advice: I've given you and yet you are still debating on what to say? Really?

    Women, sociopaths, psychopaths, and people who...
  8. The thing is: YOU need to get to know yourself...

    The thing is: YOU need to get to know yourself and find out who you are...You have yet to scratch the surface yet!
    As for that girl: It's not about how she feels about contact: it's about how *you*...
  9. That is unfortunately still an excuse. (in bold)...

    That is unfortunately still an excuse. (in bold) Women are great at faking shit.
    2nd point: She obviously has never had a good guy before: so her wanting to force her feelings to like you make a...
  10. You do what you think is right. My advice isn't...

    You do what you think is right. My advice isn't there to make you do something you just aren't willing to.
    Truth is: it doesn't matter. You are going to text her no matter what I or anyone says...
  11. It still doesn't change a thing, how am I to know...

    It still doesn't change a thing, how am I to know the internal composition of a psycho's reasoning?
    Sometimes: there aren't any. I've been with girls: one of which is serving time for attempted...
  12. You're welcome.

    You're welcome.
  13. You're welcome bro...I know it's hard BUT: the...

    You're welcome bro...I know it's hard BUT: the first step is to realize you get emotionally compromised...
    The 2nd step is to learn what triggers these emotions: then last step is controlling them....
  14. If she does do those things means: if she...

    If she does do those things means: if she deflects, yells, argues, points the finger back at you or
    refuses to take responsibility (and own her problems) THIS is the red flag she doesn't care (when...
  15. I know you can do it. Just be nice, calm and...

    I know you can do it.
    Just be nice, calm and humble about your questions.
    If you do it right: there should be zero reason to make excuses, nor get defensive.

    However IF she does do those things...
  16. Completely incorrect DH. Just watch, she might...

    Completely incorrect DH.
    Just watch, she might not even dignify your legit concerns with actual responses.
    Then again: I don't hear you facing her directly face to face either. Texts don't work....
  17. You're welcome :) How do you end a relationship...

    You're welcome :)
    How do you end a relationship that's already over: you don't.
    What I would do is talk to her shortly about your self realization (when and if you have one)

    The thing is: she is...
  18. This is even easier to deal with IF she has...

    This is even easier to deal with IF she has already done *it*

    First I would ask you: What is closure to you?
    Most people think closure is getting all the right answers from the one you either...
  19. Here; Let me say this: I have personally known 4...

    Here; Let me say this: I have personally known 4 people who have degrees...3 in Psychology and one is a licensed Psychiatrist.
    While these people are indeed intelligent and well learned...
  20. Sure thing...give me a sec.

    Sure thing...give me a sec.
  21. As soon as possible, that's when. Also don't...

    As soon as possible, that's when.
    Also don't forget to always make eye contact when you ask questions, or say things that are sincere.
    She will respect you more if you aren't dazing about when she...
  22. First off, she isn't emotionally stable: check....

    First off, she isn't emotionally stable: check.
    Worse, is she takes out *her* problems, issues and/or demons out on *YOU* <-------------not cool.
    Since you have already labeled yourself the nice...
  23. I disagree...you don't want her...you want what...

    I disagree...you don't want her...you want what you had *with* her: big difference.
    She's revealed how she is with you: and you are making all kinds of excuses in order to keep her in your life.
    ...
  24. Point 1: Women generally don't like "nice guys"...

    Point 1: Women generally don't like "nice guys" even though they will tell you that they do.
    They like confident, assertive and men that know what they want, not indecisiveness nor...
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