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  1. Girlfriend dumped me suddenly and yet SHE is the angry one

    My girlfriend of 3 years dumped me and she has exaggerated things about our relationship to almost justify her reason for ending it. She is also the angry one out of the two of us despite the fact...
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    Ladies I need your help

    My girlfriend of three years dumped me out of the blue 12 days ago. I love her dearly, have emailed, sent a letter and been round, all to no avail. I'm trying the no contact rule, have thought long...
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    and what happened - did you manage to win her...

    and what happened - did you manage to win her back?
    I've got no more updates, no contact. I'm giving her some space and then will ask to meet up. I've realised what went wrong and have made changes...
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    Dumped out of the blue

    My girlfriend and have have been together for three years. We have described each other as the love of each other lives, she has said she is lucky to have found me, can't imagine life without me, has...
  5. Thread: Gone off sex

    by carlton99
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    Gone off sex

    I'm almost 50 and although I enjoy the odd w*nk I'm not bothered about sex too much these days. My Gf and I don't live together but she is round alot and it's always her who makes the first move. She...
  6. Thread: Moving in

    by carlton99
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    Moving in

    Been in a relationship with my current woman for almost 2 years - the next obvious step is to move in together.

    We have had issues with our relationship however and every 1 or 2 months we have a...
  7. Thread: 2 issues

    by carlton99
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    Thanks but maybe a bit more of her background is...

    Thanks but maybe a bit more of her background is required.

    She is not a sexual person, but maybe I don't bring that out in her. She fancies me and loves me but I feel passion towards her but her...
  8. Thread: 2 issues

    by carlton99
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    2 issues

    1 - My girlfriend says I am a beta male and I feel she thinks I am too nice. She says my world revolves around her and that I am almost a bit needy.

    2 - She says I am too serious in the bedroom...
  9. Yes I certainly think she needs to talk to...

    Yes I certainly think she needs to talk to someone. The trouble is after this latest therapy she thinks she is normal (she may well be and it's me that isn't) and she is reluctant to budge. She...
  10. Girlfriend loves me but she doesn't like sex

    You can see from searching that I have posted about my relationship in the past.........

    In a nutshell I met my partner 16 months ago, we broke up in January this year for about 6 weeks whilst she...
  11. Hi, Yes so so. Progress has been made as 2...

    Hi,

    Yes so so. Progress has been made as 2 weeks ago she suggested starting things up again and we have slept (and I mean slept) together 3 times and are now kissing and holding hands, cuddling so...
  12. We were together for almost 7 months. Yes not...

    We were together for almost 7 months. Yes not sure progress is the word - I let other people judge for themselves based on what I say.

    Yes he sounds like a coward - how can people string you...
  13. I can sympathise with ruby_red here as I myself...

    I can sympathise with ruby_red here as I myself am experiencing the exact same thing. My girlfriend broke up with me earlier this month (she doesn't want me around whilst going through some personal...
  14. How to become the one who is chased rather than doing the chasing?

    I am 'on a break' with my girlfriend at the moment and although she has suggested dinner the last couple of times I suggested it and she said not sure I'll think about it, where as I was keen as...
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    somewhat in limbo and I hate it

    Been with a woman for getting on for 7 months and this week she has said she has no feelings for me and needs to sort herself out and cannot do this with me around. We do not love each other but we...
  16. How to not be too nice and avoid being taken for granted.

    I've been seeing this woman for approx 3 months and wonder about the future between us as she is the more dominant one, which is fine but I am wary of handing everything on a plate to her and her not...
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    Girlfriend is a bit cold

    I met this woman almost 3 months ago. Everything was perfect for 6/7 weeks then she started to get headaches/ low sex drive and she did not call/text as much as usual. She announced she was easing...
  18. Yes I am well aware of the damage I have done,...

    Yes I am well aware of the damage I have done, but now it is about the steps required to redeem myself and rectify things - I can send flowers weekly or shower her with gifts, but it seems the real...
  19. I should also add that she is a lovely woman,...

    I should also add that she is a lovely woman, lovely smile, great body and she treated me to a lovely weekend in London with an overnight stay in London, I also was lucky enough to meet her family...
  20. Ok I have an update and this relationship and I...

    Ok I have an update and this relationship and I am feeling very low........

    I explained the situation in my opening thread. She said to me I can check her phone so I did and found messages from a...
  21. she does have female friends yes, but just...

    she does have female friends yes, but just prefers male conversation/company.

    She has said to me I can come along if I'm free or to meet them and I am welcome round her house any time of the day....
  22. my new girlfriend prefers male company and has lots of male friends

    I have known this girl for 2 months - she has alot of male friends and goes out with them as friends. Some of them are married/have partners/have kids and she enjoys the conversations with men as...
  23. Thread: Insecurities

    by carlton99
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    Ok so after a week of being friends I found it...

    Ok so after a week of being friends I found it really difficult from going from seeing her 4 times a week, speaking on the phone and sending 50+ texts to each other per day so seeing each other once...
  24. Thread: Insecurities

    by carlton99
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    Just giving an update on this. You are spot on...

    Just giving an update on this. You are spot on she came out of a long term relationship and felt she was ready for one with me but then decided she wasn't. I've looked back at my texts to her and...
  25. Thread: Insecurities

    by carlton99
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    she was with her ex for 16 years I just keep...

    she was with her ex for 16 years

    I just keep wondering round the house seeing her, smelling her and seeing her toiletries. Seems silly after 5 weeks but I really felt I would be with her forever....
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