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hm - better see a cardiologist just in case?

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Good for you (though you may not realise it now). They usually do call though - eventually. Not that it should make any difference to you. You should refuse to talk to her anyway.



It will,...

Of course it is not wrong. You should though learn to have a life outside a relationship (friends, buddies, social contacts etc). Many of us make the mistake to focus 99% on our (former?) other half...

Congrats maidenmnix - wishing you the best of luck and a long-lasting and happy married life!

Let us see some pictures from the wedding if you like!

Enjoy it - N

Sleeping pills and alcohol: not a very good idea. you've had your drinks and it's early morning. You must be physically exhausted. Switch off the telly, stop thinking and you will fall asleep.
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get some sleep - the longer you stay sleepless the worse it gets.

Stop thinking and SLEEP!

ok- now you've made me curious. What did she say?

Dude, if failing relationships were easy to accept, we wouldn't all be here beating ourselves up. It is what it is though and it will get worse before it gets better.

Try not to think of your own...

Damn straight it does - read LF, keep your mind busy with something else. And stop drinking - won't make you feel any better.

Tell us about it... But this is irrelevant. If *she* doesn't value your relationship, then she will be breaking up with you. Wait to have a conversation when she is back, but really you shouldn't...

I concur indeed

3. you stop making posts about them in LF

cowards?

Ask him - why are you asking us?

She is seeing another guy till 3am (in whatever capacity) repeatedly. She refuses to offer you information of her whereabouts when you were still a couple. She sleeps in other people's houses and she...

Closure is you really realising that it is over and starting to come to terms with it. If he doesn't offer you some kind of closure (like telling you once again and for good "we're done"), you will...

Second chances don't work indeed - barring very few exceptional cases.

But if you really loved someone, you cannot help wishing for another shot. It just comes natural and some will even say that...

And you call this a relationship?

The guy is clearly not interested. Send him home and start seeing new people.

So say that he was telling you "yeah, I was born to get married - it's my purpose in life". What difference would it make to you? I mean, a LOT can happen - relationships do break down for all kinds...

Ok - I think this thread has missed the point. My understanding of the OP's question is that he's going out with a female who will pick him up, deliver him back home and pay his expenses. My reaction...

if you shower her with flowers at the time you meet, she will have to be carrying them around wherever you two go that evening - not convenient. Or they will be thrown and forgotten in the backseat...

Ok - first, I agree that it is highly unlikely that you will be able to keep this under the carpet forever. And not necessarily because men "brag" - simply because nothing stays hidden under the...

Well, if it wasn't for physics (and gravity) we would all be floating right now in the infinite outer vacuum and would never have a chance to meet each other, let alone fall in love - might have...

So the guy was abusive to you in more ways than one, now he says he wants you for sex and you think it was you that ruined the relationship? Do I misunderstand something?

If not, then yes you're...

I can almost visualise the situation of you talking to Lyn:

You: Honey, we can't be together anymore. Sorry.
Her: Why? You don't like me anymore? You don't find me attractive?
You: It's not you,...