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Oh, I don't go there for him LOL that would be just stupid! I've been in love with the country for a long time and always wanted to move there. I have a teaching job there and it's actually quite far...

oh c'mon! give a girl a space to breathe.

There's no reason to feel like that. You wanted it - maybe that's him who was used.
It's in the past now anyway. There's nothing you can do. Don't beat yourself and be kind to yourself. We learn...

Lovely forum members, you helped me once I hope you can help me again. I just need to hear what other women would do in my situation.

I met X, an English guy, in Thailand. He was there working, I...

Well, I've just came out of the dark side: was depressed and sad and now I'm beginning to enjoy life. And I really like men so thought this was going to be fun. didn't realise that I will get a bit...

haha well, I guess that makes sense. I will suffer a lot but have so much action :)

so what's your advice then?

oh and if he was married then I'd MIGHT say no..

Yes, of course I could, but relationship and falling in love would mean commitment, spending time together, maybe even quitting my plans which I would not want to give up. I was in a relationship for...

I'm definetly strong enough to go through pain as I've suffered before and can handle it (like I am doing now), but not sure if I could not go back. I'm sure if the American texts me one day I won't...

Both really. I feel like I missed something in my life. I want to go through something really great: something romantic with lots of passion and hot sex and then be able to say good bye to the guy....

That's the thing - I clicked with the AMerican on an emotional level and that's the worse part. i thought it would be nice to do it with someone I actually liked. it turns out it's not that simple!

Yes, I get attached easily. I'm afraid that I will end up in a relationship again as soon as I sleep/snog with someone and this is not something I would like.
I need to think about what you said. ...

you know what I would like? I would like to try it out with other men, see how it is, have a hot and steamy adventure and then end it on my terms and don't think about any of it. But I don't think I...

Still funny though. But seriously, I don't want a boyfriend and don't want a relationship at this stage. I just want to have a fling without attaching myself to someone :/

I envy you. I wouldn't be able to do it with a guy I'm not attracted to. I think I would feel much worse. Myabe I shouldn't have gone on a date with the American, so I wouldn't have found out that we...

haha yeah, funny :)

Yeah, i won't contact him..I will need to get it over with.

So let me ask you this: how do you do it? I was with my husband for ages. The only other guy I've ever been with was my other long term boyfriend. So I have never been single in my adult life. and I...

I thought about that name thing and I think you're right. he woudln't have given me his place of work nor his surname if he had something to hide. And the fact that he didn't want to lie to me and...

I know you are all right, but how do I forget something like that? how can I just let it go? i have this terrible urge to write to him and ask him some questions....I know it's bad and I'm stopping...

no, you're absolutely right. I need to get myself together. No point of me keeping this up. Thanks for that - I really needed someone to get me straight. If I ever have doubts I will come back to...

Oh I know - I'm hopeless right? I don't know why I want a guy who lives in another part of the world. maybe because it would be only an internet based thing and that would be easier? I don't know...I...

Hi everyone! I hope some of you can help me.
I divorced my husband a few months ago and decided that this is a good time to start dating etc. I'm not looking for a relationship as yet, but for a...