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Didn't read your post just looked at the title. No once trust is gone in a relationship it's gone and it will never come back. Sorry

wow, that is a long post...... and this is a short answer.

In my opinion you two need to separate. Your issues over jealousy and mis-trust will destroy the relationship, you should be single and...

dude, if you're using 'derp' and 'derpina' then you'll understand what I say when I say 'friendzone'

Stop with the whole suicide thing, no-one is worth it! Maybe you should try new things and...

just stop seeing her and delete all ways of contacting her and if she contacts you just ignore her. Her issues are her own and it's not for you to repair her, move on now before you hurt her much...

like the above say, just get him to block & delete her - it's a no brainer

In my opinion dude, you have been friend-zoned. I know it's hard but what you need to do is walk away from her, close this chapter in your life and move onto the next one. I appreciate it's easier...

I am coming round to this way of thinking so thank you for the post. I have given her an ultimatum for want of a better word so it's up to her whether she wants to move it forward and if she doesn't...

Have to agree with blossom here, he's had what he wants and is now no longer interested. Personally speaking I don't see the FWB thing as in my opinion if two people continue to see each other for...

Know it may be hard but get over this guy, he really isn't worth it and if he was going to talk to you then he would have done by now....

Not normally as blunt as I'm going to be but I can't be arsed to fluff this up for you....

YES HE LIKES YOU BUT IS SCARED AND HAS NO SERIOUS EXPERIENCE OF RELATIONSHIPS OR FEMALES SO DOESN'T KNOW...

I think that you were right to speak with your husband and I think I can read between the lines into what you are inferring. It may not be anything like that and as you said, you're not going to do...

If you found therapy helped then you should definately go back and work through your issues & once they have been resolved you will be in a much better place. Good Luck!

Thanks for the replies, I have deliberately left out the full history as a) it's so long and b) it's rather boring to read!

Just to clarify a couple of points, yes she had an affair and yes we...

Thanks for the response but this is kinda why I asked in here...

lol @ jeejee but it doesn't really help much does it!

@ Angelcakes, think I've missed something - are you interested in him or are you not? If you're interested in him go and have a chat with...

Unfortunately it looks like you're going to have to let him go, and to be honest if he is the closest thing that you have had to a boyfriend then it may be for the best as may be you should meet...

Hi guys & gals,

Can you give me some pointers? Me and my girlfriend have taken a break from a long term relationship due to issues but we have both said that we want to move it forward again. ...

Thanks for the input but just want to clarify that she does takes full culpability for what she did, she accepts that just because she felt that I wanted something else out of our relationship that...

I'm afraid to say but reading through your post it seems that you know what you need to do buddy. In order to help someone they have to want to help themselves and at this point it doesn't appear...

Hey Jakki,

If I am being brutally honest with you he knows about the insecurities - "Infect I sent him a text last night saying that if he wanted to see me again to text me today and if I didn't...

Thanks for the response, we have discussed the cause at length and from her point of view (and I have no reason to doubt this) she started to feel rejected as she felt that I no longer wanted the...

Hey all,

Well I'm back again for more advice....

Long story short, my girlfriend cheated on me and I've decided to give it another go with her. That's the easy bit, the hard bit and what I'm...

Speaking from personal experience, ask her flatly what's going on but don't play your 'ace card' until she lies about it and then hit her with it.

She will probably give you something along the...

I don't mean to sound harsh or anything but it sounds like you have had a lucky escape if he was that bad towards you! However just 'cos someone talks to an ex it doesn't mean that they are trying...

I like the postcard thing but not sure you should stop it just to provoke a reaction! It sounds like she may need some help i.e counselling to sort out her issues especially over her lack of self...