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Hey forum, long time no see.

I’ll try to keep this brief for this first post and if people need more info for more customized advice I’ll post but we all know those novels right off the bat are...

this is something i have struggled with too. I haven't had the nicest friends or significant others so when someone shows me any kindness that's what i think it means too. And then a lot of times I...

I have taken vitamin D before. I thought about checking those levels checked because I used to live in a state with much more sunshine. Where I am now the winters are long and takes a toll.

I've...

So I heard about fibromyalgia about two years ago for the first time. My sister had mentioned something about it and my ex went on about how he thought it was a bullcrap disease, how it only is...

That's a little rude. I have to agree with Bulrush. I mean sure there are people there for hooking up but no more so than a bar or other singles site.

I wouldn't say it's a bunch of whales. There are some... "aesthetically challenged" indiviuals but I don't think any more so than in real life. the difference is on a website they are right in your...

Kageri, did you reach out to your husband or did he reach out to you... was he in a match or did you just stumble upon each other. I've been wondering with OK Cupid. I'm typically pretty passive and...

I mean it must work to some extent right? Otherwise it still wouldn't be around. But I'm beginning to feel like for a true lasting relationship you need to be friends first. Is that possible to...

My experience with POF was alright. Ok Cupid has been a mixed bag. Someone earlier said the trick is to meet them soon instead of putzing around with emails and I think that's the case. The more...

Evo we're in the same state. It's funny you mention the not attracted factor because I do feel that way about a lot of the guys I've been seeing on line. I'm just not that attracted to them. Maybe...

I'm surprised by how many people hate POF that's where I met my ex. And like I said we dated for a year and a half and it wasn't the worst relationship in the world. OK Cupid is alright I've been on...

This time around I'm finding I'm not that attracted to the people who message me for the most part. But I do remember when I was first in contact with my ex I didn't think he was attractive either....

Hey fellow forumers I had a question for the masses?

I was curious if anyone had any success stories with someone they met thru an online dating site? You hear all these horror stories but does...

If you're looking for movies to cry some stuff out... Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, and 500 Days of Summer are both execellent for that. I just let it all out and then by the end of 500 Days...

My ex was still friends with his FWB while we were dating and it destroyed me. Two weeks after we broke up they hooked up. Eight months I see a picture of her and I get ill. Don't do it to yourself. ...

I hear you on the Facebook thing. It's so hard not to wonder. I blocked my ex for a few months in order to get that habit out of my system because it was almost automatic. But checking it will only...

No Contact can eventually lead to civility. I had an ex that we tried to be friends directly after the breakup and it ended horribly, we were miserable for months. After that we didn't talk for years...

15. When you don't have to avoid "that one movie" or "that one song" anymore :)

For me once it was the entire Garden State soundtrack. Once I could listen to it again I knew I was golden :D

Me personally I hate it. It causes so much pain to know someone is actively not speaking to you. I can only hold NC on my end for about two or three weeks tops if I'm being very disciplined....

probably. just don't know how to handle to the mean time.

Normally he is. I've known him for like a year and a half. and we had absolutely no situtations before the end of march.

I know... I feel stupid because I'm still hoping everything will be ok.

He's still on my facebook and I don't want to delete him if he's cooled off, and then got busy, but then part of me is...

This sounds a lot like a co-dependency issue if everything the OP is saying is true. If she had her own hobbies and things to do she wouldn't be so upset about what her boyfriend is doing with out...

Depends on the question but probably lol :)

He gave my DVD to a mutual friend to give back. So I have that.

Just really bummed about the way everything played out.

Just really bummed at lately and I think my friends are tired about hearing about it so I figured I come vent here.
About a month ago my friend got really mad at me and emailed me that he didn’t...