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So it's been two years almost to the day that the ex and I broke up and I wanted to pop in and give some words of encouragement

If you want the full story of how we were -- feel free to search my...

I don't think that GUILT is ever the right angle with someone..as it won't be effective for very long. I don't even know how to imagine how you are feeling with the cancer thing -- thats a heavy...

His actions mean he misses you - -there is no doubt about that. But it doesn't mean he wants to get back together. 5 years is a very long time, habits form in 3 weeks. Its no doubt difficult on...

Oy -- you can't just turn it off (the love)... and I wouldn't listen to that song...its too easy to get caught up in it. BUT.. if you want to have it all - get it all out...drive yourself to the...

So its been a year....its crazy to think that one year ago -- I was lying awake at 5 in the morning looking at this site trying to understand, bring reason to what had happened and why she felt she...

No more true a statement than that one...a little crude but its true.

Okay -- first despite my feelings on your being related to her.

1) STOP bothering her -- this will only make her more mad at you. She likely now has to dodge the phone and feel like a captive in...

Hes not going to care either way -- he already proved that to you. The reason you guys didn't kiss is because he was feeling guilty about having a girlfriend -- STOP now.. just walk away. He didn't...

Agreed toltec wisdom is pretty cool stuff.. Mastery of Love is also a good book -- same author.

Its okay -- we all go through this. You can not blame yourself for how this went down -- and even if you could -- you can't turn back the clock. The constant thoughts of if I had just said that or...

Good that you are feeling good today - you will feel bad tomorrow and great the next - I tell everyone on here this that with each new high comes a low but eventually the lows will get less low. ...

Dude... have good good sex with her - but don't maintain the relationship. The relationship is already over... might not be from your side -- but its over from hers... sorry.

No .. you can't change her mind -- and you aren't heart broken ... best you qualify for is heart - burn. Its a much milder version. You had a crush it didn't work out -- many do not. You didn't...

First of all - if you are having suicidal thoughts please call a suicide prevention line. I guarantee you this guy is not worth you taking your life over.

Second -- I will tell you what one of...

Well i got the point that she left him because she just wasn't sure -- but I hated hearing from my ex as much as he hated hearing it from her -- it doesn't resolve for him nor me why she didn't feel...

Its not a "love story" in the traditional sense -- like it doesn't work out -- it gives you a hint of optimism at the end though....which is well fine -- but not realistic. How about we chase up...

Did you break up with the girl of 5 years or did she break up with you? I will assume you broke it off with the 5 year girl -- but either way its because the relationship had the time to play out as...

I don't disagree with you except that life is not like a movie .. there aren't that many of those cosmic moments when you meet someone randomly in a place, have the balls to walk up to them, and then...

Its like watching your entire relationship on the big screen... followed by your worst fear played out in one of the last scenes.

She offers nothing to you but stress and hurt .. why would you bother with her.

Change jobs immediately, delete everything about her and move on. This is a terrible situation that will only...

Its because you are picking at the wound -- don't let her toy with you. She isn't doing it on purpose but she is not un-affected by this breakup. She is...I promise.

She is giving you crumbs...

Good for you -- your emotions will go up and down up and down like a yo yo for a few months to come. Don't think that this is over -- it will be a very long healing process. Just know that you...

You can't talk her out of something she doesn't feel. She has decided (at least for now) that she doesn't want to try anymore..you could TRY all kinds of things -- but they will mostly just get...

Had to find some pictures for a friend tonight and of course ran across some videos and pictures of the ex. They make you smile and happy -- then they make you sad and teary eyed. Damn technology.

I am trying my best to put as much distance between me and you as possible..because I just want to move on. I know that you and I would never have made it, I believe you will never make it with...