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Oh I understand. Yea. I am sure there is more to it. I do not think it was another guy at all. Withut making this a guge thread , I thinknshe had border line personality disorer and manic bipolar. I...

Well thats kind of my point here. No there was no warning, it was fast. She swears it was sudden, and still wants to be my gf. It is bizarre and makes no sense. So point here is, affirmation I...

What are you talking about?

No her son did not live with us. He is 60 miles away. He came a couple of weekends and then dad got mad and...oh well
No her son and I got along well. I offered to help her work out a plan to see...

SO me and my GF were living together, things seemed great. Thursday night we went out and she was telling me how great she felt about us, she loved me, etc... Next morning she tells me she loves me...

Ok, My GF was great. A bit crass and crude but she was great. We moved in together. I am educated and professional, she is none of that and unemployed. I got her into school, got her on Unemployment....

I met a gal and ahe seemed to be the one! It was amazing. We fell in love and after 6 months she moved in. It seemed marraige was inevitable. I was super careful to. Observing, listening to my gut....

I say WRONG!
If you are a midlife dater, kiss on the first date. Get it out there. Things move faster, we don't have 6 months of Geometry class to get to know each other. Time is short and valuable....

I am dating a gal 31yo with ADD. I am looking for any insight or advice on what to expect.

Sorry for the errors, damn fat finger texting.

I am dating a gal 31to with ADD. I am.looking doe any insight or advice on what to expect.

Yes. You are being played, and you are allowing it. Tell him it has to be 50/50 travel or your out.

So in my last relationships my gut was always telling me something was wrong. I got a lot of anxiety, and in the end I was right as they hid alcohol abuse from me. So I found that when I am just...

a 30 yo virgin? You will find it harder and harder to date as you continue. This is entering midlife. At this point we get past the insecurities and weirdness of dating. We learn how great a true...

YES! this is right. You are playing games, and maybe he doesn't want to dive in with someone who plays games. You may honestly not realize that you are playing games. Obviously this is the next step,...

Ok...i just had dui girl #4 !!!!

Wth???!!!

Well, I went ahead and took the date! NEVER AGAIN!!! No she no longer drinks. However, I picked her up at her house. SHe showed me her living room, then told me she has roommates. OK...a lot of...

Yeah, I am hyper sensitive to the issue, so I always need help focusing on these issues.

Ok, I have meet 3 woman now through online dating that all have a DUI. So none of them can drive right now. SO my question is...red flag, or forgivable? Now we have to assume that their excuse is...

So about 4 months into this thing, and with long term plans together, she just told me she has been on them for a year. She said she is beginning to taper herself off. So I am wondering what to do....

I am 43 she is 39. We are adults and have been together 3 months. We have plans to travel together out of country in 4 months, we have tickets. Had all the talks about seriousness, stability, etc.. ...

Update, I saw her and it all fell back into place. I may be nuts as hell, but hopefully I can control it. Thanks for your support!

"As much as life sometimes hurts, it IS worth surviving the pain to find your way to the good times." that is awesome! I am going to save this line. Thank you!

Ok, so curious here. My new GF, 2 months, travels a lot. She is a grad student, we are both 40's. she left for just over 2 weeks to Africa for a project and did not have wifi. so I receive very few...

OK, in a new relationship, about two months in. Things are perfect. She is perfect, but...
I do not drink, by choice. I dated an alcoholic and that has left me with some issues. I have not drank in...

Start with coffee, a stroll, then on to dinner and ur place. Ur place doesnt have to mean sex. But you have been talking a lot and she is driving a long ways so it may happen.you already like each...