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Just keep talking to her on Facebook. If she keeps initiating contact than you can get a feel of which direction to take it and eventually ask her to hang out. Sitting around and waiting in the dark...

You should move on. There's too many red flags in this whole situation. Be true to yourself and don't be in denial. You have all the answers, you just don't want to see it.

I would say... if he was a player, its still too early to tell. As a player, you have to get the girl first to play on them, which is what he's doing. He's obviously trying to put the moves on you,...

You have all the red flags on front of you.

Its only been 2 weeks since the start of the relationship. Just don't get too attached too quickly. Be patient and play it out and see how things develop over the next month or so. If you reach a...

I would like to think, if you can try hard enough you can earn her trust again. But since you've cheated in the past, you're going to have to go above and beyond... not once, not twice, but do it...

Seems like you know whats hurting her? Do the opposite?

he probably just said the whole friend bit in the beginning as a bit of a disclaimer, but most relationships start out as friendships. People don't really date anymore, they're just friends, and...

Cheating aside...

#1 You've been doing this for 4 years... Thats longer than most relationships

#2 He told your coworker he likes you and you said you have fallen for him.... easy answer...

If you're open to a relationship, you gotta have a little faith and meet people. If you get rejected than who cares, you'll avoid all these "what if" questions in the future. I always say, its all...

While I agree he is developing some serious feelings for you, I'd also say approach with caution. You said you've only been together for 5 months? Wait until the honey-moon phase of relationships...

You wanted her friend, and still don't understand why you lost your gf?

Agree with azure. He probably likes to have a fall-back plan incase him and his current gf doesn't work out. But don't get strung along, just continue to ignore him. Love is not logical, don't bother...

nayyy... not hot

You have a new bf and he's still single. You can say this is like a clean slate for him, many people try to be someone new after a relationship. It's also a way of coping for some people, your new bf...

You're in friend zone. enough said.

Men don't play games when they want to be with someone.

Probably a thing for you they've had lingering in the back of their mind. Testing the waters for sure.

If she would cheat on her husband, than she'll cheat on you.

We're in the 21st century and technology is advanced, but its not that advanced. When a female wants you to contact her, they will almost always give a phone number. Facebook is just an easy way to...

Masturbation to porn gives variety and sometimes it just simpler than a full on sex session

I agree with smackie. And, you said you guys are in college? He can also be thinking about the world of possibilities after graduation, especially other females. He was probably in the moment when he...

Hello shopgirl,

This is an interesting situation. For one, it looks like he didn't think you guys were together at the time and you guys did officially get together on the 21st. Did you let him...