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I agree with everyone else.. realistically, this girl isn't doing a thing to you.. it's all on you.

Did she treat you like crap? Sure. Is she a bad person? Probably.

But you guys haven't spoken...

Well, what would make you feel better? What is he willing to do to prove to you that he's not continuing this behavior?

When something like this happens it's better to give it time to get over...

I did give her very good advice actually, so I'm just fine looking in the mirror. Thanks for your concern though.

She should tell her husband. Either they work past it as a couple and rebuild...

I think you're really getting ahead of yourself here.

While the chemistry may be great online.. actually being together in person is a heck of a lot different.

If you're interested in seeing...

I'm sorry-- where does it state that this is a forum for those who have been cheated on?

It shouldn't be some huge shock to you that people don't approve of cheating.

Petty & mean? Not at all....

Really? Yeah.. blame the person who got cheated on, not the person who made the conscious decision to step out of the committed relationship they were in.

You're being ridiculous.

No one makes...

You're right.. it is common sense.

You're also right in the fact that he should have stopped this YEARS ago after initially getting in a relationship with you.

You're right again in the fact...

There's a difference between "speaking honestly" and being a dick.. which is what your boyfriend is being. If he wants to talk about sexual things he enjoyed doing with his ex in the past-- he can...

I always hate when people say that. "I'm cheating on my significant other, but I still love them!"

No.. you don't. Love is built on trust & respect. You broke the trust & what you're doing is...

You're upset we're judging you? Really? What did you expect. You knew your friends & family wouldn't support this "relationship" you had behind your HUSBANDS back.. so why would a bunch of people on...

I hate the whole concept of "closure". The only person holding yourself back from moving on is YOU.

You admitted to "mooching" off of this girl -- in other words taking advantage of her -- and you...

Well, you definitely shouldn't have to get him drunk to spill his feelings.. so maybe a compromise is in order?

You agree be less reliant on hearing he misses you/etc.. and he agrees to be more...

I'm with everyone else.. 3 years and no job? I mean.. I can understand not wanting to do something you don't love, but realistically? It's time to buck up & get employed.

A lot of people are...

Honestly.. the flaws you listed are pretty huge compatibility issues.

What's the number one things people fight about in relationships? Money.

While you may be able to overlook his "simple...

Have you ever talked to her about this? I think you should discuss it & see what's going on there.. before setting some deadline to end it.

As it stands.. I don't think you should equate you doing...

... I get that he's going through a hard time, and for that, I can sympathize.. however.. that is NO WAY excuses his behavior.

You said he started going out every weekend and drinking. If he felt...

I'm totally agreeing with this.. she had a golden opportunity to express what she wanted to do after you answered her question. You shouldn't have had to ask her "what she wanted." It sounds like...

Uhhh.. I'm going to have to agree with the above-- why are you even with this person?

You didn't agree with the lifestyle she led (I'm not going to call her a slut because I find that disgusting...

Life is hard for everyone.

Do I understand contemplating suicide? Sure. Been there, done that.

But I think you need to realize that the only person who can make you happy is YOU.

Don't like...

You've just got to ask her about it.

I'm not saying feelings can't change, but from my own personal experience, if I turned a guy down once, I'm likely to turn him down again. I'm not saying this...

Grow a backbone & bring it up. I'm not sure why you're relying on him to open up the subject. YOU are the one with the issue with it, it's up to YOU to bring it to his attention.

What is he thinking? He's thinking "I can get away with doing whatever I want, and still have a warm bed & woman to come home to."

Why would he stop? He messes up, you forgive him, he messed up...

Breaking up over him taking a video of you performing oral sex on him is absurd? ABSOLUTELY NOT.

I get you don't want to "start a big fight" but really, to me, that just translates into you being...

Honestly? You shouldn't have to "change yourself" to fit someone else in order to be in a relationship with them.

Should there be compromise? Sure.

But really.. some people just don't fit...

Errrr.. I don't really think it's that common, or you're "old fashioned" for not being interested in trying it.

I'm all for trying new things-- but in most situations, when you bring numerous...