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OP, is the girl aware that you published her photo and ask random strangers to rate her online?

Is it just me being a prude, or is that a bit juvenile and insensitive?

I know that my fellow...

Status update: Based on your advice, I abandoned all thoughts of openly telling her about my inappropriate feelings.

Looking back at our correspondence, I have to admit that it was more often...

Skitzo, please wake up...

Have you ever received one of those emails from Nigeria, where the Attourney of the late Prince M'Boto requires your assistance in moving 20 million USD in exchange for...

What I can read is that there is enough attraction to support a relationship during the infatuation stage. But once that is starting to wear off, your guy is starting to feel some kind of...

Applying the same logic, would a man in a rooster (cock) costume be considered sexy?? :D

You describe a selfish, ego-centric person who seems determined to deny you a shot at fulfilling your own dream. And this is based on your own perception of things. If you believe he thinks like...

Three times a day is too much. I think twice is the limit. Just make sure she knows in advance that it is coming :P

Do what? What is he expecting from you, and why is that not compatible with your own dream?

There are still a lot of details missing here.

There is a lot to comment in your post, and I will get back to that, but I stopped at this particular sentance.

I am GUESSING that you also appear as a quiet, overlooked and reserved guy at first...

This guy is probably a completely different person now than when he was 14.

Chances are that what you describe as a "connection" might just be your own memory of a romantic feeling, which -...

Personally, I would love that (back while still in my dating years)! Avoid the worst cliches, of course, although in a romantic setting I have found that there is a fairly high tolerance for...

That, and I would be a bit uncomfortable with seeing the term "kid" in any context involving romance/sex appeal.

You are not the Lolita type, I presume? :)

Good plan! In fact, try to bring it up in your next conversation :)

I don't get this. You think you can have a girlfriend (in fact, you have already had a chance at least once) but you would not like someone who accepts the way you are now. Rather, you want someone...

To me it sounds very likely. If she hasn't already, I suspect she will soon need some financial support. She will be dying to meet you, but only needs a little money for a plane ticket in order to...

How did you find each other? You said you "met" her on Skype. Is this one of those "girls" that suddenly sent you a skype message out of the blue?

Like: "Hi, I have noticed you. You seem...

You started this thread by asking "how do you stop constantly wanting things that you know that you can't have?".

Indie is asking you to define the two most vital components of your question,...

I don't think the reason why your relationship ended is that you "messed up", as you say. It just seems to me that she is no longer sufficiently attracted to you to stay in a relationship.

It...

Thanks a lot so far!! This has really helped. I am no longer determined to explain to her, but still need to sort out some details. Will be back for more...

Sincerely, I think your advice stinks from beginning to end.

Making people believe that they need to work hard to win their exes back is probably the exact opposite of what constitutes good...

I declare - stop your blatant self-promotion in the name of the Almighty Forum Troll - and it shall (hopefully) be!

Speaking of forum trolls, I call all of you. Do your worst!

This is exactly why I considered this approach. Seing the other posters' advice, I am now more reluctant.

Good point! But no, this would not be my motivation. Rather, what you also outline in your first paragraphs.

I guess I was just hoping that something good could come out of it also for her. I...

"Young woman, the only cure I can think of is masturbating you."

Well played, victorian era doctor. Well played.

What is the problem? Are you jealous about a piece of plastic?