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Valium is out of the question. I may be a terrible catch but I'm not a bad guy! I'm not out to hurt people! I'm not controlling or ideational. Getting medicated for this one aspect of my life...

Excellent idea, I'll definitely take that into consideration! Thanks again!

Pretty much what I'm thinking. It takes effort for me not to put pressure on myself...trying hard not to try to hard but trying hard enough and then falling off the tightrope because I didn't get it...

I have no idea what being yourself means, we have little recourse but to be ourselves. Either my personality seems like a facade, I guess, or the facade has become my personality but I'm genuine in...

Thanks! I'll try to find something she's interested in. I find her body language very ambiguous and neutral so I've felt discouraged from saying much but she doesn't talk much either so we kinda...

I guess you can see why its been so long then.

I hate kissing but hide the fact to spare feelings and not be on the spot and get dumped. I hate the way my face looks, I feel paranoid about bumping our teeth together and I don't feel good at it. ...

I met her saturday night and she started talking to me. I bought her a drink and we talked some more. I guess I made a good impression because she gave me her number. I called her the next day and...

I feel the most important thing after a breakup is keeping or rebuilding your self-esteem. If you have self-esteem everything is easier. Don't mistake self-esteem for arrogant self-importance or...

I try, unsuccessfully, to quantify blame so I know where I stand and try to figure out if I'm a bad person or not. Then I spend years looking at the drawing board wondering what I'm supposed to do...

Sometimes you're so tired when you finally lift your face from your hands

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I'm pro choice but can't let it go:( , there's times where you'll never know...

1. Patience: It's been six years since a woman has shown any interest in me and I feel...strange in the head. I can't remember what someone liking me feels like or what it feels like not to be...

When I'm attracted to a girl, I'm downright embarrassd about it (attraction = sexual feelings = embarrassing for some reason) and scared bloodless that she'll know I like her and draw the same...

Automatic precursor to a breakup? That's like tearing off an arm to remove a splinter. I need my space because I get frustrated and irritable when I'm around anyone 24/7. Everybody has annoying...

Ya. See him minimally. I can't understand why guys like that get what respect they do. Worry about your own feelings.

Sorry my bad. Disregard.

Be careful with your projections. Faithfulness is a matter of empathy and empathy is lacking in most people of both genders. Get too jaded and you'll cheat on someone under the assumption that...

So he was trying to pick up on other girls and get some one the side? You made mistakes that compounded his but his were the greater, IMO. I've lost what respect I was holding out for him. Never...

That's why I spoke elaborately about boundaries. There are degrees, not an on/off switch.

I don't want to pick on you but keep in mind your own insecurities. I also want to say I disagree with the simplified bashing of him by others based on your descriptions. Don't assume it's out of...

I'm not defending your boyfreind but I think I'm a lot like him. You can feel real romance in your heart burning like a bonfire but still be indecisive, cowardly, meek, unsure etc. If you've had...

@incognito: If you hire a carpenter or mechanic, you still generally consider them human not the job they're doing or the tools they use. Trading goods and services for cash. Due to sex almost...

People have what they want to believe buried deep within them and whatever they read will be interpeted with bias. Are you more interested in a "perfect world" or being validated? I suspect most...

A woman is a lot like a refrigerator...about six feet tall, 300lbs...they make ice...

What I think I appreciate about women and what I actually appreciate about women, in a specific moment in time...

I can get one from frottage too but am reluctant to engage in the physical side because of a condition called scaredy-wang, which is embarrassing for many reasons, not the least of which is if the...