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10 seconds.......if she didn't want the kiss it could have lasted a much shorter time and to her felt that long because of the unexpectedness of it. She didn't tell you until now because she didn't...

The back ground
I'm single and have been for a over a year now due to my own choice. My best friend and her partner have been together for 9 years and I regularly meet with them go out drinking...

Yeah defo right email address, it's saved from all the work stuff we do. Checked junk folder, but thanks. As for how often he checks mail- Everyday. You need to with the sort of community work we do....

Well it's been 3 days now and still no reply and I'm trying to be patient. Hoping that he will at least give me an answer. Although i did text him this morning to wish him luck for an interveiw which...

Only you know how much you 2 are involed with each other. Even so after a date is the safest option.

Gosh No thats going to far, keep a friendship with her first. Dont mean to be blunt here but what if she had a really good time and thats it its over for her. Dont put your life on hold....What if...

Its natural to back away from someone if you dont think your going to see them for a long while. Helps making leaving much easier. Its hard to say if you have read too much into this or if she was...

There is no harm in a friendly email, just becareful she has a boyfriend already remember.
So just stay friendly. As for going to stay with her i wouldn't do that, untill your sure what the...

Well I still have not had any response.

I find it hard to believe that he could not even reply "Friendship". Looks like i went too far and lost a good friend in the process.

Hi all,

After my last post i was still left feeling confused so decided to send this

"Sorry I know this may come at a bit of an odd time but I need to know.

How do you feel about me ??...

Sorry but i think she is brushing you off.
She sees you as a good friend in a simular situation.
You have to decide if friends is enough for you. If not walk away now dragging it on longer will...

I'm guessing she said this about it not being a date.

She was being honest with you about how she came to live in that area. she moved there because of her x sounds like a serious relationship...

This is the way i would go too, your orginal composed message seems too strong for someone you don't know that well plus your giving her time to think and make the next move if she is interested.

I suppose it really depends on what she said about her x boyfriend and how she said it. She could have said it to make you aware she is availble but wants more time before she goes into another...

We are both 25. Although he is 10 months younger than myself.

Just so we are all clear here, He has told me he loves me, sent me flowers once to say sorry and we have kissed several times. All the time knowing i had a daughter.

I very much agree with this. I was trying to state that if this was a problem surely he would never have told me how he felt about me, or if me having daughter was an issue i would have hoped he...

I'm not asking anyone to change ............
I can see your view on this quite clearly, my daughter to you is "baggage" And your opinion comes across as being very small minded!!!
I'm not asking...

Well Thanks..... Although im not sure this is truly the reason.
But it's certainly eye opening to know how men think of women that already have a child. Lets hope there are more men around that are...

He knew i had a kid before we even became close. My daughter is 6 now and although im sure many men see this as "baggage", Im not sure how my baggage is relevent to my orignal post unless your...

Hi all,

Well How do i explain this..........
I met him two and half years ago through friends. I instantly wanted to get to know him better and doing this was quiet easy as we were both working...