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Unfortunately I don't think there is much to read into here. He is married and writing you letters. He is not satisfied with his current relationship and is contacting his ex-girlfriend expressing...

Hi quart. I have to agree, you will get more high quality responses if you cut your post length at least by half. My thoughts are if he's willing to throw away a 1-year relationship that has made...

You are both young and fresh out of college. I think it may take him a few years to sort out his future. It is difficult coming from the college lifestyle into the career world. It's a shocker and...

It sounds like she likes you, but I agree with the poster above. Make sure you aren't bombarding her with messages and cut her a little leeway.It sounds like she likes you but still may be a little...

It's true she may find a man at a comic store or game store who is single, but they may not have the confidence or know-how to take action in such a place!

It sounds like you need to keep doing what you are doing. Don't try too hard to push her out of her comfort zone. If she doesn't like big loud parties, don't invite her to those big gatherings too...

I think many of the posters are being quite harsh and a little insensitive to the feelings you have. But I think they sincerely want to help you. The fact is, we have all been in this situation at...

It's interesting. I'd say that the ball is in his court now. You talk to him regularly, you invited him for lunch, he accepted, and you had a great conversation about life, love, and relationships....

For a guy who is just a friend, getting a big gift is not a good idea. The above poster had a great idea with the flask. Something small, not too expensive, no pressure. Unless you are sure he likes...

I agree. Ask your boyfriend about it, don't rely on his friend to give you an answer. His friend may have issues with your boyfriend being in a relationship, or may not have good intentions toward...

7 Months is such a short time. It's really not enough time for most people to really get to know each other. I'd recommend giving it 2 years at the least :-)

Hi welcome Jon! These are great forums. It's great to see a man taking initiative in wanting to better his relationships. Especially one that sounds like is already in great condition. You sound like...

Ecojeanne I am a big fan of Susie Orman and know in this situation what she would say. I think you are very wise to want to protect your assets. If you do want to get married, perhaps offer him a...

Lb, big red flag. She is not ready for a relationship. Listen when she pushes you away. If you keep trying to pursue there is a chance she will be ok when she learns to trust you, but it won't be an...

Let me tell you I sympathized with you from the moment you said spring. There service is absolutely terrible! White lies in the beginning are very damaging to a relationship. If the relationship is...

I think that a general rule of thumb is that if you are unsure but have feelings for him to beware of wishful thinking. Generally I think you can tell if a man is flirting. I believe when men flirt...

I think it matters what the "type" of man is that you are going for. Consider If you are going for a Lacoste collar popping boy or an emo skater type. However the right guy will like you in anything...

Great comment smackie. I agree with both 100%. His comments to you are simply not logical. What will the two of you two when you just relax and can no longer support him. It sounds like he does not...

I understand your feelings YellowNeon. That is unusual for a guy to not say hello, or goodnight, or anything at all. Do you see him on a daily basis? If so that can be explained a way easily, there...

Girl68, I admire your situation and excitement. The fact that you have a partner you would love to marry in a heartbeat! I think if he wants your parents to go shopping with him for the ring and...

Just passing it sounds like the relationships people have been describing as really good relationships, are not actually really good relationships. To Take2 above for example, you say you had a great...

Hi Crystal, I'm sorry I haven't been around the forums for a while. I was taking a break from the computer over the holidays. How did it go with the desserts? I think feeding them to him would be a...

I'm sorry to hear this. It sounds like it feels horrible. yOU CAN BE GREATFUL THAT HE AMDE A CLEAN BREAK. cLEAN IN THE SENSE THAT THERE CAN BE NO DOUBT IN YOUR MIND THAT IT IS OVER. iT IWLL HELP YOU...

I'm not sure that missing is something that can be force. However, if anything I would suggest making him feel good about himself. Be very complimentary, pleasant to talk to on the phone so that he...

What is with that sad face RockNRoll, it is funny looking lol! Sorry, had to say it! I agree, I don't tlike that story of the girl at the bar at all. It sounds totally unreliable. IT sounds like the...