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Yeah, definitely heading backwards - I'm back to the obsessively wanting her back stage. It's just ridiculous - how can I be so addicted to someone who obviously doesn't care about me? It's crazy!!...

Think I've turned a slight corner, in that there were periods of several minutes these last couple of days when I've not been thinking of 'her'.... yes, she still dominates most of my thought...

I know man - I'm travelling that same road - but somewhere, sometime, there starts a little spark of 'survival' - whether you do it for yourself, or for somekind of 'revenge' ("I'll show her what...

Well, it's been almost three weeks since the traumatic dumping I described. Am I stronger? Maybe a little. If I could turn off the constant mental chatter going on in my head, I'd be fine - I'm...

I can empathize; some exes like to feel they have some kind of power of you, almost like having you on a leash for when they decide they want you around, and the only way around it is to move on, and...

Eagles - hope you're feeling a little stronger. I also, am torn between the effort required to 'move on', and clinging to a faint hope that she'll call and want to try again. It's now been two weeks...

This is so tough; It's been a week now of no-contact, and every few minutes I've come close to grabbing the phone to text/call her. I'm posting nice upbeat stuff on my Facebook profile, trying to get...

Thanks to kyeema and eagles81 for all the words of support - 'guy' friends don't do the support thing too well, if you know what I mean - it is some consolation to hear other people going through the...

How do I get over you? You consume my thoughtss, my actions. Two weeks ago we were to be engaged, living together, and I could fall aasleep with you in my arms, and wake up to you every morning -...

Yeah, I have to let this one go - but don't know how - every waking moment my thoughts are of her; everything I see/wear/eat/smell/do reminds me of her. I can't see a future without her in it. Her...

I'm with you man - and don't beat yourself up over the emotional state you're in - I'm approaching 50, and still crying a month later (read my other posts to see just what my ex did to me!) - yes,...

Why can't I get you out of my head? Why can't I convince myself that you really are the deceitful callous uncaring bitch you've proved to be over these last few months? Why do I ache for you in ways...

I know I should hate you, I know I should be so angry at the cold, cowardly, callous way you've treated me, but somehow I cannot - I want to be over you - I need to move on, and build a new life...

lol - thanks Steve - I'm slowly trying to inch my way into a recovery - the continuous obsessive negative spiral of thoughts is strangling me from the inside - I'm gonna have to try hypnosis or...

Mine's the opposite; I've always loved HER much more than myself; I gave everything, and now she's gone I'm left with nothing - I'm trying to inch my way through the process of self recovery - every...

So, tonight I have to see HER - I need to get the mobile phones back that I took out on a family plan for her and the daughters - obviously I can't continue to pay for a family's-worth of cell-phone...

I know you won't appreciate advice from an old guy rapidly approaching 50 - but believe me, I remember my 'first', and the being dumped, and the pain of rejection, but can look on it and smile - and...

...to help get over 'her' - when you know it's over, when you know if you took her back you'd get hurt again, when you know you have to move on, but just.....can't? I'm doing all the right things -...

Thanks guys - I so wanna feel that way about her - but right now it's like I'm pretending to feel that way - because the few logical brain cells I have left tell me all the right stuff to do, think,...

Man, this is tough - I mean, here I am, a successful guy in his 40's, with several degrees (including one in psychology!!) - I'm a successful musician, phenomenal pool player, with a great job and...

It's so odd - I KNOW I can get through this, and will, but the thought of feeling like this for weeks/months, just somehow makes the NOW even worse.......

It's a complex story - my ex and I had been together for around a year, all going well. In July of this year, I got the feeling something had changed - the spontaneous 'I love you' texts stopped etc,...