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That's bull___. Stand tall man. Any girl that won't date a man based solely on his height is no girl worth dating in the first place. Think of it as a built in screening device and remember, it's...

^^yup, what they said.

^^^^ so sad yet often, too true. and I say boo hoo to that.

Well that 'void' you speak of is a fate none of us wish for and it does rather suck your enduring it. I'm sure you'll figure it all out and when you do, let the rest of the World know. Oh yes, btw,...

wow. yikes. REverse the situation Blue and ask yourself how would you be feeling if your man was messaging some girl who says she's be in there like a bee to honey if his wife was outta the...

Yup, and you can do it. Just have to be strong and allow time to take its course. EAch day you'll wake up and things will get easier and eventually, someone else will catch your eye, hopefully,...

So, ten years on and your still in each others lives, he tells you to get married, find some one else and that he can help you with this? huh... Interesting.
How many other relationships have you...

Nora, anytime. Sspanos didn't use the right word and as you can see, offered apology so that's pretty cool. I find many people mis use that particular term.

How's the recovery going?
Yup, it's...

"Bitching?" Gee, I thought she was asking for advice, sharing her story, not "bitching' as you so eloquently put it.
Kindness matched by inner beauty much? Compassion, look it up.....

True enough, made himself look bad but her too, (his girlfriend) by reflection. It reflects badly on her because unfortunately many assume that when a man or woman strays, they stray because their...

Dear O.P

Feeling like I was a little harsh on you regarding your crush so I went back and read what else you wrote and it seems I could have been a little more 'ginger' with my approach.
Yup,...

Oh, I don't know about that.... Personally, I love my pot bellied, hairy bummed, smelly man.....

. So, what are you, a home wrecker in training? REally? like this guy how? As a chum or something else? If he was friendly flirting with you but soon enough realized you were getting the wrong...

Dear O.P

Could it be that it is you who is feeling different about 'you' and this is transferring onto your relationship?

Lonely21, I wanted to add, it takes a tough person to go through what your going through right now. I am sorry if what I wrote earlier was difficult to read or hurtful in any way. It was not my...

Yes, what Petit Pap said about trying to imagine a life without him in it romantically will give you allot more insight; though whatever you decide he will always be in your life for he is the Father...

That's a tough one; you have children and of course they take precedence.

I can only say I have a female friend in a similar situation and she decided to stick it out; well, many years later she...

I am sorry to say but by what you have said, it sounds like he may have a tough time with confrontation, doesn't want to hurt you any more than this situation already is.

He may be asking you to...

Write the letter. Your in College and can't be torn between studies and this person who treats you in a way you would not treat others.
Write the letter even if you don't give it, get it out, write...

Its the beginning, just the start of getting to know one another. I don't think your being led on, just dating a man who has his own life as you have yours and he likes you, wants to get to know...

*67 prior to calling if you must call. Find out where he is and once you have, tell me him you'll involve the cops if he doesn't cease with the threats.

yeah, there's a slight ouch but don't forget, women can be pushy; could be he was there at the club knowing he was in love with you and getting married, probably with a buzz on and along comes a...

Wait ten years.

You two have lasted this long, raising a family, a house, a home. It is unfortunate she has the "cheat virus" as you put it. I cannot imagine the trust issues that go along with this. At least she...

Assuming you spent the night with her due to your "the next day, me and my new lady friend did not talk about it".

Yah, that was cheating. The kissing, the tongues, all of it; and sorry to say...