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So I 'failed' at Day 26 because he wrote to me and wants to meet up and talk about some things. I haven't seen him at all face to face since several weeks before he broke up with me (via webcam), so...

Dammit!! I had a dream about you last night... it made me feel bad in the morning, but I managed to shake it off and even had some pretty positive thoughts about 'whatever the future brings, it'll be...

@lahnnabell - I do want to do all of that as well, but I just really feel like going out at night, you know? Not necessarily to meet people, I just miss going out to clubs and bars. I want to do that...

Hmm. I am a person who does a lot of things alone... I don't normally have a problem going travelling/to the park/ /cafes/ to concerts/movies etc alone, but this seems different. The food thing is a...

Yes, that is definitely the best and only thing to do.

Does anyone ever do this? I'm new in my city and really feel like going out to a club or a bar. Just don't really have anybody to go with, so I thought of going by myself... but the more I think...

I am going out and trying to meet people. But it isn't that easy, and it takes quite a while, and if in the meantime somebody I know pops up and wants to do something together... well.

I don't think self-affirmation is the drive behind a healthy relationship. It's a bonus and I guess it should be there to an extent, or at the very least there should never be a negative form of it...

No no, I don't have any hidden intentions or anything like that. I really came here because I love the city and talked to his friends because I feel alone. That he's here doesn't bother me after all,...

Incognito Sir - Well, that's exactly what I'm afraid of, that someone (i.e. him) sees it that way. I can honestly say this has absolutely nothing to do with trying to get under his skin, trying to...

I know. I don't know what you mean by 'my gig' though. I posted again in that old thread two days or so ago and said I was just fine and it wasn't an issue for me being here. I have been to places...

Enchante, it's very true what you wrote. Thank you for that. Those are things I ought to remind myself of more often.

Cerby - hahah, I would like to! :p Or at least date someone else. But there's...

You've obviously never been in love.

With my ex, I played MMORPGs, I went to museums, I read an utterly boring philosophy book with him, I watched all sorts of TV series. These are all things I...

Yes, from your side, that is the only thing you can do - reassure, reassure, reassure, and maybe get a little 'harsher' on her if she's giving him too hard of a time. It'll probably get quite...

Alright, so I moved to the city my ex lives in a week ago. I don't know anybody here except for him (but we're on NC) and his friends. I've only ever met them with him when I visited him here, but I...

Funny, I guess I'm in your friend's position minus the getting back together, although that might be in the cards in the future and I have thought many times about what it would like be. And I...

Hey everyone,

So my ex broke up with me two months ago, we kept in very sporadic contact where he kept telling me he loves me and would like a future again eventually (still does, I believe that...

Option 1, no doubt about it. If you already say you're not ready for this, then actually moving in together isn't going to fix it... it's going to make it worse. So in a year you two will be unhappy,...

No, I don't think he should entertain her. Not necessarily that much because of HER behaviour - like I said, some people do these things just as friends. I could of course be completely wrong and she...

Asking strange men out for coffee - well, I think it depends very much on the situation. It might well just be a way to make a new friend... if you meet someone and want to be friends with them, you...

This eye glance thing isn't always an indication of whether or not she's interested. I know that if I notice someone glancing at me, I look at them again later to see if they're looking again, and so...

I have been here for a week now and I have to say it's going pretty well. Of course I feel alone and don't know anyone and that is a little hard, but none of the worries I had about associating...

Now maybe I'm being really naive here or I missed something, but from what I can tell, all the OP tells us about this girl is in the opening post. And from that, I don't really see how she is...

I'm female, and to be honest I probably would not seriously consider someone who didn't go to university or something similar. At least not for a 'the rest of my life' type of relationship.

You know what... you and me had a really great time together. I wouldn't trade it for anything or wish I had spent it with somebody else.
But the more time passes, the more I realize that my feeling...