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We're still together. I've met his brother and we've spent the weekend at each others places. Things seem to be going well. =)

I've now stopped initiating ANYTHING and he still calls/texts every day. He asked me if he could come over this past Friday night after work because he was working the weekend but I had plans so he...

So we had the conversation today about being exclusive with regards to sleeping with one another and he said that he was already doing this. And you're right, I knew before I asked the question that...

While we were texting yesterday, at one point I told him I missed him and our usual response when one of us says this is I miss you too. His response this time was I want you. I had a reaction but...

I'm trying. =)

The biggest thing he's said to me (that I forgot about until now) that makes me think this isn't a booty call is this. When we were laying in bed the other night we somehow got on...

Realistically I overthink and overanalyze everything. I know I should let things progress and see what happens but I take everything and make it a worst case scenario. When I call him late at night...

I completely understand that....I was just looking for an unbiased opinion because I really didn't know what to think. At time he gives the impression that he legitimately wants to be with me and...

So I completely pulled back from him and he is still calling and came over yesterday so we could do Christmas...came over after work and cooked dinner and we exchanged gifts...he got me some spa type...

He travels a lot for work which I knew when I met him. My plan is not to have him over for awhile....we'll see.

He texted me earlier to say that he misses me. I didn't respond. We'll see what happens tomorrow.

True except that there's no initiation of a booty call. Just calls and texts.

Well he continues to call/text but I've cooled on him. I let him initiate everything and just respond. Personally I like him but I'm not even sure how to have the conversation with him.

I did think he was but at this point I don't know anymore. If he just wants a booty call then yes it will scare him off. If he's sincere it still may scare him off since it is relatively soon since...

He just keeps calling..... *sigh* it would be easier if he didn't.

Thanks for the input everyone....not what I wanted to hear but I appreciate the honesty. I think I'm going to back off completely. He texted me today to say "good morning XO", I replied with a simple...

I met this guy online at the end of September and we had been texting and talking on the phone every 2 or 3 days and after a while he was telling me how much he liked me....tried getting together but...