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I don't think you are a coward but I do think your sensai is on to something. You focus too much on the negative & you have a difficult time letting go of things.

I am the same way. When I...

You are not going insane. You simply don't want to believe the facts in front of you:

1. He has an active OLD profile

2. He is lying to you by denying it & who knows what else.

3. ...

You need to be kinder & more attentive to her. There is no reason you can't meet up in school. Make arrangements to spend a few minutes together each day.

Are there any school events coming up...

After 14 years there is no changing him. Can you convince him to hire somebody part time, even once a week to deal with the inventory?

Meanwhile buy a couch that doesn't hurt your back.

Right now you are your own worst enemy. Take a look at all the bad things he did to you & be happy he's out of your life. I know you want the great BF he seems to be for this other girl but that...

This whole thing sounds ridiculous.

1. Why would you answer the phone at church?

2. Why don't you believe it was her cousin who called?

3. Learn this right now: If you don't want...

The end of your sophomore year of college & her last year of high school is quite the life stage span. She's probably too young for you. She may say she wants sex but I'm not so sure she does which...

I totally have a type: Slim, dark hair, light eyes, very smart, very confident & wicked funny. If you put pictures of every guy I ever dated in a row, it looks like most of them could be related. ...

I agree. This wasn't out of the blue. It was stewing for a WHOLE YEAR, you just missed it. Finally she threw in the towel. Even now, you are trivializing the stuff that made her end things. She...

You are totally overreacting. Ask her out & stop gossiping about her with your co-workers.

People's first loves hold a special place in there hearts but that doesn't man that nostalgia is a good reason to try again.

Do not sell your home. Never co-mingle your finances with his. He's not a generous guy. Whether you want to deal with that for the rest of your life is up to you, but it is a fact that will be...

His bad behavior is not a reflection on you. He's just one person who was behaved badly. You are right to draw your boundaries in sensible places, like not dating people who get so drunk they puke...

Mixing business & pleasure is a bad idea. If you are going to do it you need to treat it like a business meeting. You needed to set a date & place. You need to establish the rate you were paying...

Unwisely trying to maintain a friendship with her is screwing with your head. Cut her completely out of your life so you can finally move on. This includes disconnecting on social media.

I think she's scared that your changes are not permanent & she's scared that after the number you did on her life & emotions she will never be able to trust & love again.

For now keep up a steady...

Perhaps don't lead with that info. Most men do not want to discuss kids early on. Go on a few dates. When you grow more serious you can bring it up

The relationship between the new guy & your EX is so tenuous & it was so long ago, I don't see the need for an announcement. If it comes up, don't lie. Admit that you know your EX but keep all the...

Look up the definition of the word hypocrite. Tell him to get over it or dump him. He's being ridiculous.

You have to change your self talk. Remind yourself that it's over & she's not coming back. Give up the farce of trying to be friends. Every time you try to interact with her all you do is delay...

Maybe. Only she knows why she did this. If she's not talking, you may never know.

I don't think she's teasing. Perhaps she is scared. Her priority also isn't dating. Stop wasting your time. Move on to a girl who wants to spend time with you. You & this girl have different...

Ouch. Clearly he wasn't ready to hear or say I love you. You have probably scared him. That is a problem after 8 months together.

Has there ever been a plan to close the distance? Having an...

She is trying to get back together with her EX. She wants him, not you. Don't wait. Move on to some body who is both available & interested in dating you.

If you have known him for a while, the fact that he expressed interest but then has ghosted you for a week indicates that he lied to you. He's not interested. Let him go.