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maybe she thinks you're playing games. 1. you took forever to respond to her original txt. 2. When you did respond your answers were "who is this" & "huh". I wouldn't bother with a guy after that

talk to other girls and keep your options open. Don't put all your eggs in one basket. If she doesn't contact you within a few weeks, then just forget about her all together. If/when she ever does...

Start of telling her that you have something to say that you've wanted to tell her for a very long time, and you want her to know in advance that you respect her feelings after you tell her, whether...

Thats what I mean, those are big issues. Not something you can skate around. I dont respect people who take years to say they have a problem with something. I think those are the types that allow...

Well maybe you should dive right in instead of waiting for a discussion to lead into it. What if you wait to long & she reconciles with her husband & finally gives him the property he wants. You dont...

Will do, thanks for the advice.
Its true, you may come from a good place trying to help, then somehow get blamed. Especially when one or the other or both feel you dont Know the whole story. Which...

Thats what I was thinking. I appreciate tactful advice from friends, but obviously I'm not sure if they would be so receptive without getting upset.

I cant tell if their marriage is falling apart or not. To me they get upset over nonsense but are still very in love with each Other & want to be together. This recent fight is because they had an...

So, only say something if they ASK for an outside opinion? Or not even then, & say nothing no matter what?

Again, not really. Maybe annoyed was the wrong word. And i didnt say i dont think promise rings are not A fantastic idea, i dont think they are juvenile, they can be cute but like I said, the...

Simply put, my question is should I say something or not.

I'm friends with a married couple who tend to argue & fight alot. (Never physically). They get into it anywhere in front of anyone. Its...

Sounds like you should just go for it & tell her. If she doesnt respond favorably just tell her you respect her feelings and you wont bring it up again. But if she feels the same way, you'll never...

You are an honorable good man. Its a shame when a woman gets a guy like you and doesnt appreciate it.

You are not overreacting she is abusing your trust in her. These are definitely red flags you...

I think anyone who enters into a relationship looking to change the other dooms it to fail.

The thing is most women dont want to stay in a stagnate relationship. So when things are exactly how...

I made my original comment before any dude answered.

& Obviously I'm not just referring to this one thread. Im not saying girls should stay completely silent. We may want further discussion on...

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not really, the commitment matters more than any jewelry or paper.
I just find it a little annoying when someone posts something that I would really like to see what the guys have to say about...

isn't the point of the "ask a male forum" to get a MALE's opinion on w/e subject.

Thanks for the feedback.
Its not something I dwell on constantly, it was the biggest thing I've ever been thru. I don't expect the boy to be depressed. I'm not depressed or stuck. Once in a blue,...

Its not a forgiveness thing. Its like I feel alone or like maybe it never mattered to him, because he seems puzzled that I didn't just forget about it. I adore him & I'm not mad AT him at all. He was...

I know the title sounds weird. What I mean is, if you've gone through something traumatic in a relationship a long time ago (the loss of a baby), the guy moved on from it but you can't. Is it right...

THats exactly how I feel. It is frustrating. But I see Cerby's point too. There are more important things to get upset about, so I'll just let this thing go. Maybe we'll go see cirque in vegas instead

yes, we're going out specifically for Maine lobster (for the first time together). We can go for dinner any time. There are places in boston & new york, where we've never gone. If I just wanted to...

maybe I didn't explain it well enough. we were both going to travel to maine together. leaving the state & eating lobster is not as common (for us) as watching hockey. It looks like you're from...

Actually he lives in Boston. Which is a 3 or 4 hr drive away from Portland. Its not a place either of us visits often, or even sometimes. He doesn't live there & doesn't know anybody there

He agreed not to go. He originally agreed to just wait to go with me. WHats the point of making an agreement if you'll just dismiss it when its convenient for you