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I find it harder when they remain in my life; for me if I have strong feelings for someone then I either need to be with them or not have them in my life at all, being just friends is not an option....

Yep, I would say so!

If she wants to be with you then she should end it with him but until then you should tell her that nothing can happen between the two of you. Not only is it not right to sleep with her when she has...

What you have to think about is how will you feel if you continue to see him and then when it comes round to it next year he opts to end it so he can have fun as a single man in America. I think the...

If she wants a third date with you then I would say that's a good indicator that she likes you! My advice would be to just let her be herself and she should start to feel more comfortable with you...

Thanks for the replies. I think I am right to follow my heart and I shouldn't be so concerned with what other people say/think.

Nowhere in my post do I make any suggestion that the relationship is online. Infact he is somebody that I use to work with and then he quit his job and moved away. Before that happened we saw each...

It's complicated; it's long distance and they don't think he puts the effort in and they see me getting upset when he doesn't contact me when he should and they don't like seeing me like that....

I'm totally in love with a guy who says he has very strong feelings for me and that he wants to be with me. If there is such a thing as 'the one' then I feel like he is it. The problem is it's very...

I split up with my boyfriend of 6 months at the end of January. The reason was that it was long distance & he was putting in zero effort. He knew I had strong feelings for him & was ending it because...

When people break up having been in a long term relationship, unless it's a messy breakup (due to an affair etc) then it's normal to feel sad about how things turned out. I still cry now nearly a...

Tell him if you love him, it's not too soon after 10 months so you shouldn't have to stop yourself from saying it if it feels right for you.

I can understand you not wanting to be controlling but I don't think it's unreasonable to expect her to spend less time texting this guy and more time texting/talking to you. You're her bf, not him,...

When I first met my bf I was drawn to his personality rather than his appearance. At first I saw me and him just being good friends because whilst I really enjoyed spending time with him, I didn't...

Just talk to him about it. Tell him you would like to go but you understand if he doesn't. Then you can let him decide, which is the most considerate thing to do. It's obvious you are thinking of him...

He was being polite not indecisive. Like others have said, if he 'told' you where you were going that would be off since he wouldn't be taking your opinion into consideration, he might end up...

Unfortunately I don't orgasm during sex. As for fast or slow, it totally depends on the mood. Mainly fast but sometimes it's nice to go slow. It's nice to vary it actually, from fast to slow back to...

Without the willpower, determination and motivation to change his ways, he wont. Although you're trying to help, it sounds like he feels pressured and all that will do is make him even less likely to...

If she thought that much of you then she would still be with you. Move on. It doesn't matter if she still thinks of you or not, and I don't think being friends with her is such a good idea. Find...

I completely relate with the first problem, my bf is the same and I keep telling myself it's just how he is and try not to get too upset about it. Some people don't like texting/talking on the phone...

The only time I can say a **** buddy situation worked successfully for me was when I just considered the guy to be 'OK'. Physically he wasn't overly attractive but he wasn't bad looking. Personality...

I can completely relate to how you're feeling. At 24 I married the only guy I had ever been in a relationship with (7 years) and less than two years into the marriage I started feeling trapped. I...

He contacted me in the end and we've had a good long chat and he supposedly intends to visit me soon, although I won't hold my breath. He is always so busy and tired and hates texting but it's no...

Yes leaving someone is hard, but not leaving them for the fear of how hard it is only makes it harder when the relationship does end. In answer to your questions, No there is no easy way to get over...