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We have still been in contact every day. We both initiate the contact. He tells me about his weekend plans...his work days...everything. The conversation has been a little slow the past...

It takes time to get over someone you love, and sometimes it takes years. You really have to consciously work on moving on. Every time you start to think about her, change your thoughts. Keep up with...

It's definitely weird, IMO. But, people used to marry their cousins all the time. Are you first cousins? I would probably try and put an end to your feelings for her. If you're first cousins and your...

Hmmm...yeah your instincts are right. Sounds like he just wants a F*** Buddy. If that's not what you want, then don't get involved with him sexually. Just be his friend.

I have never had a purely platonic friendship with a man, unless he was gay. I've thought some of my friendships were platonic, but at some point in time one of us has always entertained the idea of...

25-12 = 13....Where did you come up with 6?

Of course the OP asks him for emotional support...she is in love with him. He calls her up when he needs the support...ex: whenever he has a break-up....

Personally, I don't think it's a friendly thing to do to keep a "best friend" of the opposite sex around just for emotional comfort when it's needed. That is kind of what this scenario sounds like to...

Just email her. If she is curious about you or has a small crush too, she will be thrilled. Just do it. Listen to Smackie too, confidence is key! For real!

Just be honest, and as soon as possible. That is the best anyone can do when they are breaking up with someone. It's one of the hardest things in life, to knowingly hurt someone you love. Just...

Why is your ex still living with you? You are essentially dating your best friend, but you haven't kicked your ex out yet? I'm not judging here, I am just trying to get some more details about why...

I do think it's inappropriate behavior. I was just trying to get around the argument of whether it was inappropriate behavior or not...and encourage the OP to trust his feelings and not doubt...

It doesn't really matter what any of us think about the "appropriateness" of the sleepover situation, etc. What matters is the OP has an issue with it, he expressed his concern/feelings to his GF and...

That is the plan :)

I have to pay $5 to respond now? I will try to keep it short.

Wakeup - You're right about most things you're suggesting.

I understand and hear what you are both saying/cautioning me about. The...

Hahaha...what do you think? I had gone without for 8 months!

I hear you Wakeup. I just ran into him again a couple weeks ago...not 8 months ago. 8 months is how long I've been single. People can change over the course of 10 years. He and I have talked about...

I was not married, but together for about 4 years with my daughters father.

The man I am speaking about is not my BF yet. We just reunited after 10 years of not seeing one another. When we were...

Agreed. I need to get my head out of the clouds. I'll just be patient and see what happens.

Haha. How many Honeymoon phases do two people need to go through before they just make that final commitment?

I know...I know. We both know we want the same type of life. We have the same values, we spend and save $$$ the same way, we are planners, we have all the same interests (except fishing)...that we...

It's been a while since I've posted anything...so here I go.

I separated from the father of my child about 8 months ago. Very hard thing to do. Anyway, I recently visited my hometown for the first...

That's what I thought was going on. Put an end to it now. The sooner the better. You don't even need to explain how you feel again...he knows what he's doing. Don't feel cheap, just move on and don't...

Hmmm...well that's a little different of situation now that you put it that way. Give it a little more time. You have told the new girl how you feel about all of this correct? If you see no changes...

Yeah...he just playing you. After only a week the compliments stop? So, you slept with him right away? Ugh. When you first a guy and they throw out all the lines in the first week....run! You realize...

Your new girl is just scared. You said it yourself...she and your ex are no longer friends and there is a lot of drama. Yes, she should have come clean to your ex and your friends earlier. She should...