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You're not overthinking it. The heart wants what the heart wants. Listen to your instinct on when the right time to say something comes along. Wouldn't it be awesome if SHE said something first? ...

What a tough situation. if you don't ask, you'll always wonder. But if she's not into more than friendship, you take a chance of pushing her away. i think it comes down to how comfortable you are...

Melancholia, thank you for laying it all out like that! Excellent response... I hope she listens to you!

Wow.... Put it all down on paper and look at it.... Well... Just read your own post I guess... Lol! If your friend asked you for advice and these were the circumstances, is there a chance in hell...

Well said, Melancholia! I agree 100%.
Elphie, it hurts to move on, but the sooner you are clear about it, the sooner the healing can begin.

You asked "Do such people usually change?"...... No.
Sorry but its true. And be prepared that if you have the strength to dump him, he will KEEP coming around trying to perfect his "game". When...

I rather agree with At88.... if this experience isn't enough to change her behaviors and stop being so irresponsible as to get "blind drunk".... I don't know, if this were me, I would forgive it once...

This is not what you want to hear, but as soon as I read "Im also a little over her in the company" my advice is STOP! I work I H.R., and although you may think your work "has nothing wrong with...

Hi Khaleesi_pri, I cant help but wonder if you listen to your own instinct perhaps you already KNOW the answer of what you should do, and you are really just seeking confirmation or support from...

Hi Vegeta183! Wow, awkward and embarrassing situation, huh? She was obviously caught off guard. Some people worry about things like "omg, I just ate garlic" or "my breath isn't fresh" or "he's too...

Hi Alestar..... I always wonder how old the poster is that I am responding to? Im assuming you are 20's or younger?
Anyway, you said she is wonderful and the relationship works well on all...

Hi! I haven't been here for a while so this looks like a good thread to jump in on and insert my opinion! LOL!
My thoughts changed from your 1st posting to your last. At first, I thought okay,...

You probably don't want my opinion, but I'm gonna put it out there Anyway. It sounds like she might be the girl for you, but quite honestly, I don't think you are the right guy for her. I do think...

Guychi, I think you already know the answer. I think you only gave her these ultimatums because you know she is going to keep doing whatever she wants anyway. There is no way in hell you are okay...

My guess is that she does like you but that moving to Canada is probably the big elephant in the room. I have to ask you if the relationship is worth YOU being the one to move to Turkey? Its a...

What kind of answers are you looking for? Its shitty, rude, and cruel of you to be with your "boyfriend" and be giving this much attention to the memory of your ex. So much attention that you are...

Ive been on vacation. So glad I saw this tonight! Thanks Jester!! I needed that message!

I am in that situation, I live in CA with absolutely nobody here except a few friends. If I was certain of the relationship, I would absolutely move for love with the circumstances as you stated...

Intuition is real... the hairs standing up on your neck, the feeling you get in your gut, things popping into your head like a little reminder... all of these things are proven to be another one of...

This is so much like my bff and myself! Haha! She had an ex that was a bonafide scam artist and cheated on her and lied to her repeatedly. She knew all these things, we talked about all these...

Oh wow! So let me ask you this... have you already found yourself distancing or shutting down a little? Those are two pretty major red flags to find out about.
Cant tell you what to do here,...

Heartbroken, I am going through the same thing you are. Believe me, there is nothing wrong with you, nothing at all. Nothing you could have done would have swayed him or convinced him to stay with...

Heartbroken, Im sorry that happened to you. I know its painful.
You can spend all this time wondering why he chose her and not you, but nothing is going to make sense... nothing at all. He...

Giggik, did you ever text him back after he replied to you?
If you didn't, he may be sitting there thinking HE messed it all up?!
If on the other hand, you did text him back and he didn't...

So happy to hear that it fell back into place!
And TheEvilJester... your advice is always spot on! You rock!! :)