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had a chat with the GF last night, and most of today. I told her how I feel. There has been a lot of tears. I feel like an arsehole, mainly because I still haven't completely ended it. I...

Dude. First of all, you've done the right thing cutting it off. If you carry on, trust me, it wont be good. Trust me.

All you gotta do now, is move on. Then maybe one day, when she splits with...

My other thread was in detail, with quite a few long winded posts, so I'll try to keep it brief.

- I'm bored because I do the same monotonous thing week in, week out. Not just with her, I'm...

In many ways, you sound like you're in the exact same state I was in a couple months ago. You're confused. That's clear to see. What the biggest problem is here, form my point of view, is that you're...

So, a few of you will remember me from a few weeks (maybe month) back. I had a thread with a dilemma, you all gave me great advice, etc etc.

I'm not really here to ask for advice. Not really...

Well done :)

The exact deal breakers....

Ultimately, I think we want different things right now in life. She's getting ready to settle down, and I'm not. On top of that, although we're good as "friends" - we...

So, I wouldn't expect everyone on here to have read my other thread. But short story : I'm having issues with the GF, we've been together for 4 years, and we're giving it 1 more try....

Now, tell...

I echo what both posters before me said.

If she actually went out on a date with another dude at the first sign of trouble in your relationship, then she's not for you. You're better off without.

Sure did.

http://www.loveforum.net/love-advice-forum/46847-how-do-i-do.html

Yeah, I wouldn't be so fussed if it happened like that for me :D

Alas, that wasn't the case. A few weeks later I met my current GF. 4 years down the line, and I don't know how to break it off. :(

OH no, I completely agree. I'm all for going up to the girl. I find it very easy to talk to women (well, since I was about 20) - and really don't mind starting a conversation, even if it leads no...

I hate girls that do that. (Well, I don't hate the girl, I hate the idea).

A girl once came up to me, stunning. We started talking for a while, maybe 30 minutes or so, had a dance, it was pretty...

Ask her how she would respond? What's the point? Why not just ask her out :D

(I generally interested, btw, as to why asking her what she would say matters).

I know this is the "ask a female" forum. But dude.!!!! She likes you.!!!!

If you're a happy person that likes to make people happy, then trust me, she likes you. The signs she's giving are because...

So dude, you've got a crush. We've all been there, we've all had them.

Basically, you need to do something about this. I mean, bottom line is, she's just a person.! She's real, like you. She has...

Two posts that completely say everything I was going to.

This is pretty much what I said in the other thread he has created.

Hahaha, yeah, this.

It's very clear what he wants. I also happen to know (being a guy and all) - That he would be very unlikely to make the first move to have an affair. However, if you offered...

I could explain in detail why it happens at certain times at work, but I can't be bothered :D

I don't work in an office, though.

That being said, I'm sure it would really brighten up his day,...

From my personal experience, which isn't all that, but it's something, it sounds like she doesn't want to be with you, but does love you, and doesn't want to hurt you by dumping you.

What I would...

There are times where we stand close for work reasons. Trust me, she's not "in to" me in that way. She is engaged, and is very happy. She also knows me very well, and knows I'm in to someone else,...

1) how would you spice things up again?

We try different things sexually. Toys, anal, porn. Never a 3some, because that shows a lack of love in the relationship. We tried different date nights,...

Sorry it worked out for you that way. But in a sense, as you mentioned, this is better. You can now focus on your marriage (weather that is ending it, or fixing it) - and focus on your daughter,...

Hahahaha, the old breast shove. A girl at work (who has huge boobs, real, too) - Does this a lot. When I told her, she said "I know.... but what am I supposed to do with them".

Fair enough. :)