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My wife and I seem to be in a rut and I don't know what to do. Most of our arguments seem to stem from her saying or not saying something and then me telling her she did or didn't say whatever it is....

Basil - Thanks for the suggestions. I've got a pretty good handle on my mortgage. I'm able to make additional principal payments on the mortgage and my car should be paid off next year, two years...

Basil - we are working on that. This is the first time in a number of years when my wife has actually been home evenings and weekends. Prior to this school year she was working two jobs and getting...

My wife is in her second year as a teacher and last night she plopped down a stack of papers and told me I'm going to help her grade papers. I said, "No I'm not. That's not my job." An argument...

I would try counseling. If it doesn't work, divorce her. You should be allowed to have female friends. TO cut you off like that is abusive.

Fruitless - my parents can't afford to help pay for a wedding. My girlfriend's family isn't in a position to help pay for a wedding either.

She works part time only because she went back to...

I know I have a lot of time and I'm happy to have at least started the discussion with my girlfriend. Her sister, who recently got engaged and will be getting married in 2014, will also be paying for...

My plan is to propose to my girlfriend of three years, this coming May. We'd probably be married a year later. My girlfriend wants the dream wedding with banquet hall, DJ, photographer, flowers, etc....

Vashti - nope, not at all. It's a nickname I've had for about 16 years.

"Hi, my name is..." Is a great way to start a conversation.

Communication is key in any relationship. Without it, a relationship can't develop fully. You need to talk to him and see where his mind is at - where he sees this "relationship" going. If he's only...

Have the two of you considered counseling? If you're both serious about trying to fix things, this might be the best way to go. Get all your thoughts and feelings out in the open. Receive guidance on...

I agree. Physical intimacy is very important. Otherwise you're nothing more than good friends living together.

I now know I can ask her best friend and her recently engaged sister for assistance on picking out a ring.

Don't make a decision for the sake of your kids. You're the one that should be happy with the relationship you're in.

How has he been a lover for two years but has a one year old daughter? Makes it sound like he cheated on you while you both were dating. I have very little tolerance for someone who cheats. Once a...

I hate it when my girlfriend teases me with foreplay and then it doesn't go any further. I like smackie9's suggestion. This way you can control the pace. Guys like to be dominated too.

I don't think that's something you can find. It kinda just happens. I started chatting with a woman and invited her over to dinner for a first "date." We ended up having sex afterwards and from then...

I dated a woman who liked it as much as receiving it. I was skeptical, but we did it after a shower and thorough cleaning.

I could casually have a conversation about ring purchase - especially since her sister's fiance bought the ring with the held of her grandmother.

Thanks for the reply. I'm not so sure how comfortable she'd be with me picking out a ring on my own. A year or two ago I know she told me she liked this, this and this in a ring (if I can find the...

My girlfriend and I have been dating for three years now. We've talked about marriage and I told her I wouldn't think of proposing until she's done with school. Between work and her studies, planning...