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Does your wife understand how close you are to leaving the marriage? Perhaps if she knows how dire of a situation it is, she will consent to getting help with her sexuality. Are there any Eastern...

Yes I have researched co-dependency and my problem is that I redefine my boundaries to avoid confrontation. Luckily I don't have a lot of the symptoms. But I am a peacemaker and will sacrifice myself...

Hi there. Depending on what state you live in, separation is still considered married. If your husband has a live in gf while you are still married you can get him for adultery and get alimony (to...

Well I thought I was dealing with a stressed out guy that didn't know how to process his anger or deal with kids. I didn't know I was dealing with infidelity as well. And when we married I moved 6000...

Very true statement.

Thanks for the warning. It's all good because I'm half Irish...

Thank you Michelle23. Yes, I've been unhappy for the duration of the marriage. But I hate the thought of another failed marriage. So I was trying to work through the emotional abuse. This is...

Fireman,

I think you need to honestly consider if holding on to this is worth losing your marriage. Seek individual counseling if your wife wont go to marriage counseling. That can help you...

Thanks everyone. I have replied to your question about what prompted me to look but it came back that the moderator must approve it. So it will post when it posts I guess (assuming this message...

Thanks for the question. Actually, the problems began in Hawaii. As soon as we married and my girls and I moved in he suddenly had no interest in me. But he had passwords was on his computer...

Thanks for the question. Actually, the problems began in Hawaii. As soon as we married and my girls and I moved in he suddenly had no interest in me. But he had passwords was on his computer...

Thank you Michelle23. I too think sex addiction is nothing but an excuse for infidelity. He is a narcissist. Everything revolves around him. The family used to walk on eggshells just trying not to...

Thanks Wakeup. I did not tell him to go to counseling but I posted on the TAM website in response to someone else that counseling needs to be self motivated. I also said that mine hasn't even...

My husband of 8 years has always had passwords in his computer and phone. Although this bothered me (slightly), I never really made issue of it until recently. Three days after we discussed the issue...