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    I personally don't like too much body hair but I...

    I personally don't like too much body hair but I know lots of women that do. Everyone is different and I think there are more important factors to consider when choosing a mate.

    If you happen to...
  2. It is totally normal for the lust to fade after...

    It is totally normal for the lust to fade after awhile. It is not normal though to try and set up threesomes with new colleagues and offer her your couch without even discussing it with his partner.....
  3. you have my permission to snoop �� I would if I...

    you have my permission to snoop �� I would if I suspected something. I would dig until I find the dirt. Others may disagree but I think you have good cause to at least read his texts
  4. This would make me end the relationship. The fact...

    This would make me end the relationship. The fact hes done it twice shows he has not learned a thing and hos matter of fact answer shows that he thinks his behavior was justified or okay. He will do...
  5. I think you should trust your gut on this. He is...

    I think you should trust your gut on this. He is lying, you can sense it and he is hiding stuff from you. Plus the fact hes resorted to name calling and blaming (your paranoid) when you try to bring...
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    It sounds like she is doing it out of obligation....

    It sounds like she is doing it out of obligation. Maybe she has a really low sex drive and is just not into sex. I doubt your size has anything to do with it coz you have tried to get her off in...
  7. Thread: What now?

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    Yes in my mind it became a really big deal. I...

    Yes in my mind it became a really big deal. I felt threatened by it and felt like I had lost something. I know lust cannot last forever but I kept his longer than a lot of people do. I was the centre...
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    Are you able to give yourself an orgasm? If yes,...

    Are you able to give yourself an orgasm? If yes, then you need to teach him what you like. Of course it feels like a chore when you are making it all about him and hes the only one getting off...
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    I think it would be a good idea to avoid any one...

    I think it would be a good idea to avoid any one on one activities with him. Still be polite and friendly if you wish but distance yourself as this can lead to problems. He has dropped a hint to...
  10. Thread: What now?

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    He swore he wouldn't do it again but I just said...

    He swore he wouldn't do it again but I just said "don't lie, I know you will, this circle of lies needs to end so don't make promises you are never going to keep". I think you are missing the point...
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    I don't believe its fair to say I am insecure and...

    I don't believe its fair to say I am insecure and need therapy because I don't like my man drooling over another woman. There are lots of women who are not okay with porn. Should our feelings just be...
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    how are they completely different? I reacted very...

    how are they completely different? I reacted very calmly when he admitted it today. I just wanted honesty. And I don't expect him to tell me if he plans to watch it. I just wanted him to admit that...
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    thanks relationship T. After some thought I have...

    thanks relationship T. After some thought I have realised that it was an obsession of mine to keep looking until I found and I absolutely refused to give up until he just admitted it. Now that he...
  14. Thread: What now?

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    It does make me feel jealous 😠 It angers me and...

    It does make me feel jealous 😠 It angers me and hurts my feelings. And I tested him last night by telling him I fantasize about other men just to see his reaction and he really didn't like it so why...
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    He lies about a lot of small things. The biggest...

    He lies about a lot of small things. The biggest issue for me is porn. I would not mind it so much if he wasn't so sneaky about it but the fact that he deletes things and is shady about it hurts me....
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    What now?

    I just ended my long term relationship with my children's father over ongoing trust issues and lies. I asked him to stay in the guest room until we figure things out financially. I am not working...
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    I think oral sex is very important especially for...

    I think oral sex is very important especially for women as a lot of women cannot orgasm through intercourse and sex would be very boring and unsatisfying for her without it. I think if you dislike...
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    grow a pair, be strong and stop allowing yourself...

    grow a pair, be strong and stop allowing yourself to love a guy who doesn't want you. My friend has been in an on/off relationship for 10years with a man that gives her zero commitment and only turns...
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    ask her out

    ask her out
  20. Thread: Cont. :$

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    ya I am sorry I am completely lost and confused...

    ya I am sorry I am completely lost and confused reading all that. Can you just tell us your ages, how long you were together, when things went wrong and why.. and what is happening now?
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    I think when you experience something as life...

    I think when you experience something as life changing as an assualt then it emotionally stunts you and you cannot grow as a person or in relationships until you deal with what happened and try to...
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    You can't fix the problem if hes not willing to...

    You can't fix the problem if hes not willing to try. Maybe discuss it over a cup of coffee calmly in the evening instead of bringing it up in bed? He may be more open to discussing it if you keep...
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    Poll: It sounds like you are not really happy with...

    It sounds like you are not really happy with either guy. The online guy is meeting your emotional needs while the other is there physically. Maybe you need to be alone for awhile and get your moral...
  24. This would be a deal breaker for me and I would...

    This would be a deal breaker for me and I would have ended it a long time ago. She must still have feelings for him and I would be amazed if she hasn't cheated. If hes no big deal and shes not...
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    I think you are over reacting. They were talking...

    I think you are over reacting. They were talking with you sitting right there next to them-just friendly conversation which you could have joined in. When me and my SO socialize we talk to everyone...
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