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Oh yes, I understand that Marilyn Monroe was definitely Borderline. When the judge dismissed the restraining order, my ex started crying and acted the victim role. My ex buddy of over 20 years who...

Yes. You are 100% correct. I did not know anything about Borderline Personality Disorder while we were together. After the first marriage ultimatum 6 months into our dating, I was drinking a lot...

I understand the responses that state, just move on, your better off. I get that but the difficulty is we find ourselves wanting an explanation why we were discarded. I was once the white knight in...

I sometimes wonder if I am just hoping she has Borderline Personality disorder so I can justify getting dumped. In actuality, she has too many of the symptoms for it ti just be a coincidence. I still...

Yes, with borderlines, it is never about you, it is always about her. You are not what she WANTS, you are what she NEEDED at the time until she discards you after she has someone else. They think...

My ex girlfriend has all the symptoms of Borderline Personality disorder and has broken up with me to date my now ex best friend. She hardly knew him and only met him once. She called him up to trash...

Thanks for all your comments. I will try to sit her down this week and reaffirm my love and commitment to her. I need to try to have her understand why I want to take things slow. The only time I get...

For the most part I am happy with her. She can turn on a dime thou and play mind games. It can get emotionally exhausting. If she gets what she wants, we will have peace.

She is 51 and never been married and has a 15 year old daughter. I am 52 years old with no children

Thank you. I am not stringing her along. She knows that I love her. She knows that I want to be in an exclusive relationship with her. She has the power to hurt me if I don't succumb to her deadline....

Marriage might be important to her. Her first ultimatum occured five months after we started dating. Since then, there have been more ultimatums, then she would back down. I would not want to put...

My girlfriend of 1.5 years just told me last night that I have until this Friday to decide about setting a wedding date in August. I posted a thread months ago about her previous ultimatums that have...

Yes you are right. I won't waste any more of her time. It is too bad that two people that love one another can't just enjoy natural growth instead of forcing the issue. I will let her go. I guarantee...

I know you think I am pointing the finger at other people instead of owning up to my responsibility here. The relationship WAS five months five months old last Christmas (read first post) when the...

Update. Daughter has been gone all summer staying with grandparents. 14 Year old daughter is back home with her mother for school to start. While she was gone, her mother and I had a wonderful two...

Okay. Thanks.

Thank you. She knows my weakness. She can be very seductive. I have to think with the right head.

After countless times of breaking up because there is no ring, she breaks up again last night after crying at my doorstep a few mornings ago promising that she will not let her mother interfere...

Thank you. I do appreciate constructive criticism.

I don't even know her mother because she lives in California. Her mother called me on the phone after 6 months of dating and chewed me out for not giving her a ring yet. I don't know about you but I...

I do love her very much. If her mother would leave us alone, I would not refer to my relationship as a soap opera. Her mother lives 3,000 miles away and is constantly asking her daughter when we are...

She came back this morning. She promises to not let her family meddle in our relationship. Her daughter is out of town at the grandparents house for another month. I told her that we need to focus on...

Ouch! I really don't know how to reply to the last sentence. I think she could do a lot worse. All I can say is that I treat her with the utmost respect an have always gotten along with her. This...

Okay. I guess I am the bad guy here. I should understand kids more. Unfortunately, I never had the privelege to have any of my own. Her mother started giving me attention when she used to get it all...

Okay. I get it. Thank you.