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Doesn't everyone project their own experiences into their opinions? Personal experience creates opinions..... Yes, I'm biased, but isn't everyone?

We all have our own experiences and learning...

You are not abnormal, and your feelings are not silly. I think we all have found something from our partner's pasts (ahem, Facebook pictures) that make us feel jealous and insecure and comparative. ...

After 7 years together, you should be able to communicate. I don't know why you dismiss the thought as being "next to impossible." Why? If you're already starting to look outside the relationship...

I don't know why you would even consider taking your ex back. You broke up at least 8 times in 6 months. Completely dysfunctional. Do you really need to go back for more? Cut this guy off...

This as well^^^^ "He says she knows he wouldn't approve of me going but asks me anyway".....Really? Is he your Dad? You need his "approval" for going out to a girlfriend's birthday party? And...

I learned this one the hard way about a decade ago. I was with a guy that became more and more controlling with me. One of his big issues of contention was my own best friend. She had a very bad...

I wouldn't trust her either. She is definitely a party girl, she has a history of lying and cheating and hiding things. You're right to say that the issues won't stop if she promises not to drink...

Hey Jester! Just wanted to clarify- what I meant by that is that when you go out on a date with someone, it's easy to put a lot of pressure on yourself and the experience. I know people that...

She wants you to man up and ask her out. She is blatantly asking you to ask HER out. So do it!

I don't think it's "easy" for many people to find someone to be happy with. For myself, it was a long process of trial and error. Lots of disappointments and learning lessons. There are so many...

He's not the one for you at all. You're right- he does take you "lightly" because he has no intentions of taking things further with you. Your flirtation is a welcome distraction for him, and you...

Hmmmm, well anything that leaves you anxious to the point of feeling sick has no place in a healthy relationship. That being said, you can't really expect to be able to sleep with other people and...

There's definitely enough instability here that would make me suggest that it won't be a good idea to live together right now. If you are already on the fence about this, then you're right- a...

Wow. I HAD to read the other posts first because I was curious to see if as many alarms went off in others' heads as well.

When I first started reading your post, I assumed that you had been with...

It doesn't seem like she was interested in a relationship with you even before this happened. Going on 3 or 4 outings over the course of 3 months is not really a relationship. I think you were...

It sounds like you shared an amazing summer romance. The timing was perfect, the proximity was there, and the setting was right. You both felt an attraction and went for it. I'm glad you were...

Feels to me like you do this to her to try and not get too close. You're afraid of getting hurt again, so you keep her at arm's length so the bond doesn't get too deep. It's a way of maintaining...

You've been in contact with her-which she initiated- EVERY DAY since you've had this talk. You already agreed to taking things slowly. And you've been in contact (in various forms) every single...

You most definitely need to talk with her. If I was in your shoes I'd be dying to talk with her and get this figured out. I know this hurts, but to not mention it is only going to prolong the...

I'm a wee bit confused as to what you are asking. I think it would help if you would give us more information, truthful information.

I find it fishy that you "Accidentally" found this email, yet...

Ignoring her will not help, nor will you help your case by doing so.

Regardless of how you came across the information, you do need to talk to her about it. I get the feeling she has been really...

Answer? It didn't happen overnight. This probably built up over time until he decided to break it off. Your instincts told you that he was "faking it" and going through the motions for a while. ...

You are not responsible for her or her happiness. You are not her parent, you are not her parole officer, you are not her life support system. You are your own person that should not feel like you...

You want different lifestyles. She wants monogamy, you don't. For this to work, one of you would have to give up something that is crucial to each partner's happiness. That's not really fair to...

She seems pretty upfront with you. She chose to disclose the conversations and her concerns to you. She also asked you beforehand if you were okay with her Friending him. She's already done more...