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Broke up a while back with my ex, she subsequently started seeing someone else and I made the rookie mistake of begging for her back as soon as she told me.
She said she wanted space so I gave it,...

Guys, to update:

I spoke with her last week to arrange a present for her boys birthday, she said that was fine but still didn't wanna see me cuz she not ready to do that whole thing yet!
Then...

Yeah, i figured it was a crappy post but its what's going on in my head. The whole situation is making me act like a total noob!!

I'm not the "he".

From what I can see "he" has nothing on me in terms of career, ambition or status so I can't see the appeal to my ex of him over me..

I know that's childish and superficial...

You shared 3 years together and lived in each others pockets, it's difficult to let go of that stuff. However you see the faults and as much as she's moved on and having someone else's kid, you have...

You're dead right. You put him straight and did the right thing, he can't say he loves you and still go thru with the sham marriage.

You've shown great strength getting thru the first day of nc,...

Guys,

When in a new relationship, how long do we think the honeymoon period lasts for?
You know before things get boring, you start thinking about your ex, or you realise the grass isn't greener...

Guys, she unblocked me last week for a few days and now I'm blocked again.

Turns out she's found out that I've been asking about her and trying to get the scoop on her new fella. Her contact spat...

Agree with Michelle, you're having a rough time of it and its understandable you need to grieve. For her she doesn't wanna be part of that as much as she understands the situation, she has an escape...

Trying to please everyone else and not doing things that made me happy

No matter how much advice you receive and know that it's sensible but I feel like there's a block from me going thru with it.

Ppl say, get out, be yourself, do normal stuff, go dating and it's all...

Welcome to heartbreak.

I'm the same, all my thoughts are of my ex with her new boyf and everywhere I go I think of them. The paranoia is unforgiving and I struggle to deal with it. Everyone says...

My family didn't agree to it cuz it was a mixed race relationship. She won't see me although I have explained thru email.

Cut off contact!!!

I've been in a similar spot but from the guy's end of it. Was fixed up to an arranged marriage to please my folks, convincing everyone around me that it was the greatest thing...

She hardly met much of my family, and only a few friends but said she met everyone he cares about already. She said I'd broken her heart which I get but I never cheated or anything like that. My...

So i broke up with my ex girlfriend in October over some family issues that I was having and it was the biggest mistake I ever made.

I sorted out my issues resulting in me disowning a lot of my...