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Ok, my last post for clarification. I apologize if I offended anyone by my depictions of the women he has been with. I don't think I am better than anyone else. I have tattoo's, I've done some...

I'm sorry for disappointing you guys.....I do seek attention...in all the wrong places it seems. I know what kind of guy he is and I am not sure he will change......but because I still have feelings...

I am in denial and no, my self worth is not all that great. Problem is, I have feelings for him...despite all this crap. I don;t know how to let it go...I have a brain, I know I should, it makes no...

And you don't know shit about me or him so you can stop with your fukcing attack. In this situation, yes, I am a step up from him and his trashy ex's...it's a whole different world. I am not...

Yes, yes and yes.... BUT let me play devils advocate for just a second....don't kill me everyone......WHAT IF.....just maybe, I was the one to break his cycle? He had never been with anyone like...

Wakeup I deleted the post because after reading it again, I realized it sounded like I was back in la la land and I really didn't want to take any crap for it. In a nutshell, his friend told me I...

michelle23....you could be 100% right about this. Thing is, I've never met his friend before this accidental meeting...so it wasn't like he knew he was going to run into me....he only knew it was me...

Nah, another thing I learned is who these 2 girls are. One, and I hate to think this, is the "bad Boy" crowds favorite ride...she doesn't want to settle, she just likes to play.... and the other...

It's fine michelle23 I took that post down.....maybe I am gullible. Like I said, his friend has no reason to lie. He has not contacted me himself nor do I think he will. It's just I finally...

Hey...stop fighting on my thread! JK, it's fine.

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Hey...stop fighting on my thread! JK, it's fine.

Wow, things are getting a bit personal on here. First let me say that this was the first time I've gone in a forum to seek advice. , this was a great thread...I am so glad I did post on here. Just...

Oh, I am more than aware....I haven't been out much due to my controlling ex....so I haven't been in situations where guys have hit on me...until recently....I had a guy flat out tell me I was...

I know that was meant for michelle23, but I'll throw in here.....I don't think he is a "user" at all. He doesn't have to "use" woman for sex, he has several willing participants who don't care that...

I don't "have another guy" already. I am NOT over the FWB guy. This new guy is an acquaintance who I am just talking to. He is a good guy who is trying to show me that not all guys are like...

I am just trying to understand. I don't think he would be capable or mature enough to have an adult conversation like this...it is just wishful thinking. I know exactly what he is, but I have a...

Thank you. As the time passes, and I go not contact, I am hurting less and seeing how I am just as responsible as he is. He hurt me because I let him. His views on women and relationships is so...

Wow, did you even read this whole thread? I absolutely knew his last name (that was a dick statement to make) along with many other personal details about him and his family...we did talk, for a...

I will do that for sure!

I hear you. I guess a beautiful woman offering sex is comparable to a wealthy man offering gifts and vacations......may not really like them, but you'll overlook that for the end result....and not...

"Good, at least you learned from this. There would be more guys in the future who would wine and dine you just to get you into bed. Make sure that you are more guarded next time."

I did...

I get the reality....I put myself out there, I thought I had a chance with him, I allowed this to happen......its all on me.



If I am really honest, and I think I've said this in this post...

Hold up....if you read it all....he was not up front at first...it wasn't until I said I had feelings that he turned it into FWB....after we had been together a few times....I did create that...

Wow!....because I am an educated professional woman, I should not have feelings? This has nothing to do with how educated I am, it has to do with how inexperienced I am with this type of behavior. ...

Gonna assume y'all know each other...???

Thank you Michelle. I put alot of faith in others, that they will give what they want to receive in return. I know personally, I could never hurt someone like he did me...but it's been done to him...