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Hmmm. Not a friendly, supportive site at all though. Too many people scoring points. A few really nasty individuals. I'll take the good and quit. Good luck, all.

Again, I concur, searock. "No mistrust on either side, no reason to mistrust by either person." Clear lines of communication. Love to the fore. Overriding
everything. Niggle arises, talk it...

I concur, searock. From small acorns etc. Past is past and we all need to be sensitive about what we disclose to new partners. That new girlfriend doesn't need
to know how great in bed was...

What surfhb said. You see her off and on and it don't sound like you're crazy about her, least from what you say. Platonic friends don't send each other
messages about "hot legs". Decision time. If...

Hi broken4. If you are serious about this woman and you're thinking about announcing the fact, I wouldn't tie it in to any doomsday prophecies. That might
seem a bit wacky to her. Only time will...

Hotaru, no-one is crying a river here and no-one is suggesting for a minute that this woman has made wise life choices. But your comments are a little "after
the horse has bolted..." She said that...

Point taken, searock. But we're not even talking about watching porn here. Just some drunken photos. My gut feeling is that the emotions stirred up here do
deeper than why he chose to hide the fact...

If you're still planning on getting married to this guy, you really need to resolve this situation, otherwise resentment and mistrust will grow and fester. Your
emotional response to these...

I hate to sound harsh but it sounds like you are living in both a sexless and a loveless marriage. Or, at least, you are receiving no love from him. Your weight
shouldn't be a factor. It sounds...

Hotaru's vile comments simply beggar belief. A woman posts a message saying that she feels like killing herself and she receives a mouthful of abuse back? That's horrendous. She's clearly in a very...

It's not surprising that you're obsessing about it. You wouldn't be human if his behaviour didn't bother you. Nobody should be treated so disrespectfully.
Whatever moral questions arise about him...

Any serious communication by text is too open to misunderstanding. Keep it light on text. If you feel you're running out of conversation, simply ask her a few
questions. She'll love the fact that...

Aside from any moral concerns, there could well be legal implications in this guy's use of photos of young children in his"art". Personally I'd run a mile and then inform the police.