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I recently became very attracted to a guy, i did all of the following (subconciously):-

looking at him, not staring but holding my 'look' for longer, glancing and capturing eye contact when i...

OP if you think that this or something similar won't happen, then think again.

The H of the woman my H had an affair with came to see me, he was livid to say the least and so close to smacking my...

What does it matter that she's taller than you, I can't imagine that that's why people are looking at the two of you, if indeed they are. Most folk just aren't interested in others and who they're...

^ so right.

You're playing with fire, as is she, and you'll both get burnt, nothing's so sure.

Seven years age difference isn't a lot per se, the problem is that she's just 16, which is far too young to be dating a 20 something guy.

I tried to think about this from the point of view of her...

If i were you i'd make damn sure he knows that I suspect he's up to something, and i'd do it asap.

^ couldn't have said it better myself.

he's lying to you.

If I were you i would challenge him about it and don't accept any of this kind of explanation, it's pathetic. What kind of fool does...

you say that things aren't always fantastic in your marriage, of course they're not, nobody's marriage is fantastic 100% of the time, it's what you do when it's not so good that make it a marriage...

It's not peace of mind, nor do i want any reason from him.

I'd like the divorce to go through quickly and on the correct grounds because that's the truth. I don't want to pretend that some of it...

i don't know walkeup

I'm hoping that when i see my solicitor again and show her the evidence that i do have it will be enough to show that he's behaved unreasonably. If it is, and she can only...

I agree with what you're saying about him taking the middle ground.

he does owe me something, he owes me honesty, and i'll tell you why. I'm his wife and the mother of his children. We had been...

a real man, who's also a nice guy, caring. and a low voice (especially on the phone) i love that

The best thing to do is nothing, don't stoop so low.

Walk away with your head held high.

i wouldn't bother trying to get him back.

It's really not worth the heartache.

You don't need to be in contact with him for anything, so don't. Cut off all contact asap. If he contacts you...

it's a check list. Are you going to hold interviews?

This isn't how it works.

Yoiu could spend years looking for her, and if and when you do find her you might not tick all of her boxes.

lol, i am silly


another one

who are you

If you're saying that she's not like this all the time then that's probably because you're picking up on every little detail.

If you show her more signs that you're interested, flirt with her,...

i wouldn't want him to say it in that sense (him feeling that it was boring, tedious etc). Not in the sense you're saying ie...am I having a nice time (that would be ok)

@ IndiReloaded

Yes i tipped him out straight away after my son told me he'd been capturing and logging their conversations (fb),without me knowing, my son was downloading programmes with which to...

because he'd be saying that it wasn't much fun and wanted it to end asap

I wouldn't want to hear 'have you finished' - my partner would be saying that he's bored, that it was tedious.

He's probably doing it because he's jealous of you. He's trying to make you feel jealous so that he feels superior.

don't allow it to bother you too much, you can chose not to take notice.
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I thought the question was 'what are the three words you don't want to hear after sex'?

have you finished

OR

is that it