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I'm really sorry he has put you through this! He is being very selfish making sure his needs are met while ignoring yours and how distraught you are! I agree with the other posters. I think you...

I always try to challenge any negative feelings I have regarding the issues you mentioned. Whenever you think a negative thought about yourself or put yourself down, replace the thought with one that...

Sometimes people feel this way when things are finally going great in their lives. It's almost like they can't believe that everything is falling into place, and try to sabotage it. As the OP said,...

Congrats dcad, hope you enjoy your day!

Thanks guys! How long into the relationship did it take you to propose?

Do men 'just know' when they have met 'the one'? My partner and I were discussing this recently and we both said we never 'just knew' that we were going to marry each other. Perhaps that's why we...

Once a fortnight is good for us. We live together and have been together for 4.5 yrs. So I guess it's as the others have said. If you don't feel your sexual needs are being met then maybe you should...

When you become so internally focused on your problems you do tend to be miserable and zombie like. I find that doing things for other people makes me feel better. Your mind eventually calms and...

Thanks. Makes sense dguywithabeard. Just find it hard to uproot a life that I like. Anyone else been in a similar situation?

Hi all,

Have you ever/do you know anyone who ended a relationship that you/they were happy in and love the life you/they had together but you just don't feel that they are the right one for you? I...

It doesn't seem like he is willing to change his views on certain things that are important to you and if your values in life don't match then it's probably not a good idea to marry him. As for the...

Get tougher! If you don't look after yourself, you won't be able to work at all so who will look after your kids?? Stop paying for her life! I am sure she is capable of cleaning her own house! There...

He probably feels he has committed to you by buying the house together. When a guy holds out on marriage I've always wondered if it's because he is genuinely fearful or they just doesn't want...

To Gratedwasabi, if a man feels their gf is negative then they shouldn't string them along and stay with them. Rather than be weak and wait for the girl to bring up the L word, moving in together as...

How long would you wait for a proposal? I will turn 32 this week, he is 38 and lived together 2yrs. We have been together just over 4yrs. It was a LDR for the first 2yrs. He says that he wants to...

Geez, how often do you want it?? 2-3 times/wk is very good. My honest opinion is she drinks and may not be interested in sex with you anymore because she isn't getting her needs met and isn't feeling...

Glad I could help and let me know how you're going! Good luck and just make sure you do what makes you happy because you only live once!

Hi MysteryMan123,

I was in a similar situation as you are. The men had the traits of the girls you described as well! I am still with the safe, fun, long distance relationship man who moved back...

I have spoken to him a few times and every time he says he wants to spend his life with me and me to become his wife but I guess sometimes it's hard to tell if he is just all talk and no action and...

Hi all,

When a man says he wants to spend his life with you and marry you but still hasn't proposed after a year of me bringing up the topic and a relationship of over 4yrs is it time to leave...

Hi all,

Have you found that not wanting children or not knowing when you want them in your mid to late 30s has been because you are not/have not been with the 'right' person at the time? Or you...

Moving on can be hard, as it is such a habit when you have been with somebody for so long. The best thing you can do is realise that you are not happy now so how much worse can it get if you live on...

Thanks all for your response. Curious to know what people think. I have a few freckles on my back that I have always been self conscious about and because I don't like too many freckles on a man I...

I think it depends on their personality but I have been told in the past if a man wants to marry you he will just do it. Some men that I have spoken to have wanted to propose to their girlfriends for...

Why is that?