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One thing that hasn't been mentioned: Because she's randomly made out with a lot of people, the chances she has been exposed to herpes simplex are much, much higher. No, it's not a STD, but getting...

Good luck.

There's looking at people and then there's checking out people.

If it's the former, the other posters are probably right: Your bf sounds insecure.

But if it's the latter, he might have a point....

Making him "work" for it? Waiting two days to accept his invite even though you knew you weren't busy? This isn't going to work, and it has nothing to do with the guy.

A 36 year old could technically be the father of a 24 year old. But thousands of happy relationships have a 10+ year age difference. The "he could be your dad" saying is used as an attempt to shame...

His lack of success is not due entirely to his own laziness. It sounds like his laziness is certainly a part of it, but the modern dating scene is atrocious, and women are responsible for about half...

You have a right to seek out sex as much as you'd like. She doesn't have to give it to you, but if your libidos don't match up, I'd look for a different partner. Mismatching sex drives isn't gonna...

It's not your job to read her mind. If she didn't tell you she wanted something, then you did nothing wrong. Her vagina isn't some magical gate that you have to jump through hoops to get to.

It...

Ignore. Seriously. A lot of women do this BS. Don't feed into it.

You don't have to go without sex. Nor do you have to go above and beyond to get sex. Her vagina isn't some magic
prize you get after you've been the perfect husband for a month.

Assuming you are...

The correct response to this is, "No."

What do YOU want to get her, if anything?

And the responses saying "If you can afford it, why not?" are absurd. Yeah, he's got eight grand lying around,...

I stopped reading after "I looked at his phone."

You snooped. You obviously don't trust him. End of story. If I were him I'd leave you and never look back.

Snooping is never okay, and it's even...

The problem here is not that she doesn't want to have sexual contact with him. The problem is that she *had* sexual contact with him, and is now withholding it. She even told him as much.
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It sounds like your luck just hasn't been great. When you boil it down, attracting women is just a numbers game. If you approach a couple dozen women, at least one will probably give you a phone...

Absolutely don't buy women drinks, and absolutely do not compliment her in the early stages.

She's just a woman, a person with a mess load of flaws who looks crappy getting out of bed in the...

Nope. You just have to ask him.

No.

Watching porn isn't cheating. Neither is looking at other women on Facebook, IRL, etc.

If a woman wants a guy who never looks at anyone else, that's fine. She'll just have to date a house...

If this, if that, but this, but that. Bottom line: The majority of women still want guys to do the pursuing. If that's what they want --- and, for most women, it is --- I have no problem with it....

Edit to add: If sex isn't important to you, then you can obviously continue with the relationship as it is.

This is simple. If she doesn't want to have sex with you, that's her right. But why would you stay with someone who doesn't fulfill your needs? If you've explained the situation and she's still...

So...the OP is jealous, insecure, has walls up, and, like most women, wants to do nothing but
expects to be asked out anyway.

Yeah, this will turn out well.

It is childish, and you're playing games.

My guess is the guy picks up on it sooner rather than later and stops talking to you.

And then so many women wonder why "there are no good guys left."...

You seem like a decent person, OP. Seriously, I think you just need to bring it up. I'd admire
a woman who owned her past and said something like, "Just wanted to be straight with you here, I'm...

They haven't been dating long at all. After two months, that barely even qualifies
as dating. There have been women I haven't seen for a few weeks in the early stages of dating and it had nothing to...

Your past is a part of you. If a woman couldn't have an honest conversation with me about her sexual/romantic past, that would be a reg flag.

Also, some guys will consider your prior marriage a...